Re: What exactly is Pakistani culture?
I havent yet read all the above comments, forgive me if im repeating but heres my two pence worth in responce to people saying pak culture is not really ours but a caste off from Hindu India.
This is how I see it, you parents have been doing these rituals, living this way of life, and restricting their lives according to the social mores as their parents instilled in them.
this culture/way of life was handed down to your grandparents from their parents who got it from their parents who got it from theirs...............and on and on
this culture was handed down and occasionally changed/evolved to suit necessity, ie when they were converted from whatever religion to Islam they changed going to the Mandir etc to going to the mosque, changed not eating meat to eating meat, adding on things from other cultures like when the Moghuls came along and intigrated they added things like... actually I dont know but they mustve added something from their way of life.
Recently ways of life and culture have changed with the introduction of TV which has bought an alian culture into peoples home and lives, for example some people in india celebrate Valentines day.....
What Im trying to say is that this amalgamation IS pakistani culture, it IS your heritage........... you may not like some of it, you may not like all of it, it may offend your sensibilities, it may offend because it contrasts or contravenes what you hold dear for example Islam and Islamic traditions.
But that is not the fault of the culture of Pakistan, Culture is a way of living that has been handing down slightly changed ever since mankind setfoot on this planet and this Pak culture thingybob is the version thats evolved and been specially engineered for you.
Its not just a set of rules made up by people with obsessive compusive disorders although, thinking about it some of these traditions we are have may well have initially been generated from ocd's