What does past relationship (s) that never worked out got to do with marriage issue

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Re: What does past relationship (s) that never worked out got to do with marriage iss

@hannah12

I have seen this alot happening among Pakistani guys. They are always curious about girl’s past and if she ever had a relationship. I have heard that some guys divorce their wives after finding out that she had a boyfriend long before
the marriage took place. Sometimes people break proposals by spreading rumors about the girl having a boyfriend once upon a time in her life time.

I don’t understand what is so bad about having a previous relationship. Sometimes it’s not really girl’s fault for going into a relationship and getting dumped because of the deception from boy side. I have seen guys strangling girl into relationship by giving promises of marriage. Sometimes girls make these mistakes at a young age by believing bull****. I just personally don’t think there is anything wrong with a girl having a past (as long as she isn’t a slut - someone who goes out with multiple men at the same time). I just don’t get what the hype is about targeting girl’s reputation for having a past and ruining her life. And what’s with Pakistani men not able to handle their girl’s past?

Not just guy, even my mom has a problem with any girl with a previous relationship. She said girl who is in habit of having a relationship never changes and I would never trust a girl who goes out with a boy.

Multiple means more than one or is there a number?

Why is someone who went with out with 10 men in different times better than a girl who went out with only 2 men but at the same time?