She registered on a matrimonial site, and she got someone who lives in the same city as of her.They know each other for the last two months.According to her,both of them deactivated their accounts temporarily as they decided to get to know each other,and the guy had told her that he has told his family about her though they haven’t contacted her or her family yet as they are currently busy with his brother’s marriage preparations back home.
The guy initially gave her time but slowly his calls/texts started declining,and that made her kind of suspicious and she thought perhaps it wouldn’t go anywhere,and because of being unsure about him,she again started searching on that matrimonial site but this time she made a different account but when the guy too logged in there one day, he found her there since she being online there. So, this just made the guy go crazy and said she has broken his trust though she tried to justify her reasons. So, after she giving him time & space,she contacted him again, asking for a chance & that what would it take to earn his trust back, but the response which the guy gave is quite funny & confusing.He told her that,he would start trusting her again if she purchases from him a mobile phone which is a brand new which he had purchased recently but he wants to sell it because he is in need of money & wants to her if he can trust her to help him out. Now, what she wants to know is that, what’s the connection between trust & buying a mobile phone? So, it’s making her suspicious that, perhaps he is trying to put her in some sort of trouble? Or perhaps he is trying to test her?
What you people think? What should she do in such a situation?
There's no connection....and that's a strange condition for forgiveness. "Give me money, i need it..only then will I forgive you for a misunderstanding which I was partly responsiblle for." The guy should have understood his own role in the situation that caused her to come back to the website and create a profile. His intentions are not in the right place. Tell your friend to use her head, have some respect for herself, and move on from this guy.
Never trust a guy who ask you women for any kind of monetary reward. That is damn cheap. Tell your friend to move on, she will find Insha'Allah someone better.
If the guy too logged in again, he also broke the trust. So whats the fuss about!
Exactly .
If she cannot spot a crook , then she needs to get more matured before she can go online matrimonial sites. There are all kinds of sharks and moles on those sites. Everybody on those sites is not seriously looking for a rishta, some are there to just have fun , some are looking for side actions , some are looking for a prey. You have to spot the right kind of person to start thinking seriously about getting married to.
very fishy...and I don't think it's a good idea to trust such guys on matrimonial sites. And the 'monetory forgiveness' he demands doesn't sound right at all
On a serious note, that is REALLY weird - weirdo. I would be freaked out. And I'm failing to understand how this is a 'test'. What is he 'testing'? I'm really interested to know the answer to this one - so someone please answer.
what the hell HE was doing there?? topi kara raha hay.. nothing else.. leave him asap!!
ulta chor kotwal ko daantay.. she should immediately break this relation before she gets trapped by him!!
Seriously! I will forgive you if you buy me a mobile and I can later sell it? Ok lets forget this for a milli-second would your friends really want to go back to a guy who cannot finiancially support himself, so if she did have a future with him, you know who would be doing all the work.
Money has nothing to do with trust, and I like how he got freaked out as he happened to find her there - and what was he doing there? trying to find a backup rishta? Hes not innocent. Hes a total user. She should be angry at him! he didn't call, he is still looking online, so she moved on and he freaked out? While he himself was looking for someone new?!
Your friend is wasting her time, tell her to keep looking - and stay away from that guy.
& wants to her if he can trust her to help him out. Now, what she wants to know is that, what’s the connection between trust & buying a mobile phone? So, it’s making her suspicious that, perhaps he is trying to put her in some sort of trouble? Or perhaps he is trying to test her?
she should immediately break this relation before she gets trapped by him!!
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