Yeah rite... I think we all know how the "indpendant" men/women enjoy having alot of sexual partners or boy/girl friends before they settle on any IF they ever do.
Thanks, but no thanks.
And please don't tell me there aren't a million single parents esp single moms with 3-4 kids from different bfs/husbands, mostly due to the "independant" and laissez-faire attitude.
I think arranged marriages are the way to go. Statistics speak for themselves.
Sounds like the rishta in this thread is for you. lol
Personally, I would never ask my parents to get pictures of some girl (exceptional circumstances apart like e.g. if her parents are not allowing use to meet). I'd prefer meeting her.
Yeah rite... I think we all know how the "indpendant" men/women enjoy having alot of sexual partners or boy/girl friends before they settle on any IF they ever do.
Thanks, but no thanks.
And please don't tell me there aren't a million single parents esp single moms with 3-4 kids from different bfs/husbands, mostly due to the "independant" and laissez-faire attitude.
I think arranged marriages are the way to go. Statistics speak for themselves.
Arragned marriages can fall apart jus like non arranged marriages. also, specifically speaking about muslim pakistanis, i think wat u've said above about independence and related to sexual liberty is not all true about all of them.
but yeah educate ur daughters n if some1 approaches them, they should go through the proper channel whichis getting parents involved ASAP.
Arragned marriages can fall apart jus like non arranged marriages. also, specifically speaking about muslim pakistanis, i think wat u've said above about independence and related to sexual liberty is not all true about all of them.
but yeah educate ur daughters n if some1 approaches them, they should go through the proper channel whichis getting parents involved ASAP.
Totally agreed!
For your first point, yes, I did not specifically mean muslim families, but unfortunately that is becoming a norm in muslim families as well, be it in the west or back home.
For a girl, the parents shoud ensure:
Education=yes
Independance to make deicisions = yes
Meeting potential candidates in a controlled environment= yes
Dating and going out with BF/Boss = NO
This doesn't seem normal to me.
First, why would they ask for a girl's pic first rather than showing guy's pic first, like it is always done. I don't think its right to show a girl's pic's to a guy's family and not showing their own son's pic.
This lady whoever she is, why is she sooooo much interested in getting the girl's sis married. Shouldn't her priority be her son right now. I think its okay to find the younger daughter some good match only after the older one is married by this lady. Doesn't make sense at all.