What does emotional abuse in context of desi relationships?

[pak2015]

Re: What does emotional abuse in context of desi relationships?

@salaam2k14

If your wife has stage fright and she mentions that it would be hard for her to give a presentation for an event at your work or at a social function and you say that she’s a "selfish btch for not doing the presentation. Emotionally the woman would feel lower than ever. That could be an example.

If she makes a mistake and you constantly bring up how worthless or useless she is for making that error.

Or the girl that you are with is not someone you would marry so you say how you’re only with her until your parents find you a great match from Pakistan that’s gorgeous. Saying something like girls in the old country are more pure or virginal just because they were raised there as opposed to girls raised abroad. You constantly say it to your girlfriend, her self esteem would be nonexistent.

Your wife goes shopping for basic necessities like groceries and you ask for the receipt so you can get money back for the money she spent. if she can’t cough up the money you take her belongings and blackmail her until she gets the money for you. In the process use condescending, belittling words to make her feel worthless.

She asks you to do something for her that would mean the world to her but you’re really cold to her about it and could care less when she brings it up she is still responded to with apathy…that would be an example.

A woman asks the man she loves to be faithful and committed only to her but he feels some sort of excitement by having more than one woman to fool around with, I guess that would be another example of making another person feel excruciating amounts of pain when they are obviously in love or in a relationship/marriage with you.

Damn…are you talking from experience, if so I’d like to apologize on behalf of all such men, what an a$$