…means to you and has to do with impression formation?
share if you like.
best,
Dushwari
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I read somewhere....Do not count your age by the number of breaths you take but by the moments that take your Breath away!...am I making sense here:D
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yes, you are Ask99.
living in a decent manner requires self restraint in which one is personally content. other wise, one may always be at a loss and unhappy because the person did not mean to have that self restraint.
graceful aging with this context will make a person thankful for the maturity and responsibility with which one interacts with those around oneself.
Dushwari
Re: what does age appropriate demeanor...
yes, you are Ask99.
living in a decent manner requires self restraint in which one is personally content. other wise, one may always be at a loss and unhappy because the person did not mean to have that self restraint.
graceful aging with this context will make a person thankful for the maturity and responsibility with which one interacts with those around oneself.
Dushwari
That is so true .Aging and accepting it gracefully is a task done by very few in this time and age.The race to act/speak/look young is something that everyone is almost competing over day and night.
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i concur. i see so many people who act so out of age.
i will not take the usual route to ascribe those behaviors with age such as 20s or teens or even childhood age
people try miserably to look young, to act preppy and they look even more deteorated due to their complex.
it is an around the clock ordeal but when it is undertaken as the prefferred way than being immature or silly, then it is dangerous.
anything self indulging, if not contained, can turn into tasteless immaturity from accents to spoken words to the way people treat other people.
people who do that, cannot enlist trust in others.
Dushwari
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i concur. i see so many people who act so out of age. i will not take the usual route to ascribe those behaviors with age such as 20s or teens or even childhood age
people try miserably to look young, to act preppy and they look even more deteorated due to their complex.
it is an around the clock ordeal but when it is undertaken as the prefferred way than being immature or silly, then it is dangerous. anything self indulging, if not contained, can turn into tasteless immaturity from accents to spoken words to the way people treat other people.
people who do that, cannot enlist trust in others.
Dushwari
I agree...Its just sad to watch such stuff unfold in front of your eyes.Then there are some who act like they are just older then their chronological age..one thing is the genuine feeling of keeping yourself Looking young with proper diet and exercise and then its another trying to follow the younger then you FADs ..like u r saying the wordings etc..I agree that it makes them appear so tasteless and immature...and so without self respect.
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i believe age is a relative phenomenon. One will almost certainly grow older minute by minute but the question is are we growing too. Growth in intellect, Stature, views. Maturity in Personality , Understanding, learning. We in Pakistan live a refrigerator life. Either we are too young to try an adventurous approach or we have already grown older once we are thirty or had couple of kids. Chained constantly by countless fears. We drift through day to day happenings and die. We never actually live a life coz we never actually work hard fr prospects in it.
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Skull Dust,
truer words were really said. thanks.
Dushwari
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i concur. i see so many people who act so out of age. i will not take the usual route to ascribe those behaviors with age such as 20s or teens or even childhood age
But that is exactly what you are doing here. No?
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yes, you are Ask99.
living in a decent manner requires self restraint in which one is personally content. other wise, one may always be at a loss and unhappy because the person did not mean to have that self restraint.
Well! There are plenty out there who will be more than happy to lead unrestrained lives. "Unrestrained" should not be related to sexual behavior only.
We cannot force our thoughts about the ways of decent living on to others. They might have very different ideas about how they want to live their lives. Forcing our thinking on to others is also unrestrained attitude.
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witchdr,
thanks for sharing your perspective.
unfortunately, you are biased against me, and everthing you say is glaring sign of prejudgement.
when you will come out of it, i wont make sense to you.
best,
Dushwari
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witchdr, thanks for sharing your perspective. unfortunately, you are biased against me, and everthing you say is glaring sign of prejudgement. when you will come out of it, i wont make sense to you.
best,
Dushwari
Hmm......... I was beginning to feel the same that you would feel that way. However, I assure you that I am not biased against you. Our opinions do conflict from time to time and I do like to present my opinion in your threads. If you read my posts, I always try to use such phrases "I believe", "I think", "In my opinion", etc., to let people know that it is only my POV. I have great respect for you as a person, as I have for many others here.
As it appears my comments are irksome to you, I would refrain from posting in your threads as much as possible.
PEACE.
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Witchdr,
you dont have to not share your perspective. instead it will be very productive if you realized that you did do that from time to time.
you are welcome to post, if you like.
peace.
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Dush,
I do realize very clearly that we have differing opinions on many issues (but not all) and my perception of reality is different from yours. In my view, neither is good or bad. In the end, these are all perceptions anyway. However, if I keep on discussing with you, my opinions are bound to show up.
This in no way means that I do not respect your opinion. If I have made you feel that way, I am, indeed, sorry for that.
CHEERS.
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you are fine. i appeciate your sense of realization and i respect that you are not egotistic or coward like many people. i mean it.
by gone is gone.
lets give it a good try again going forward. :>
best, dushwari