What Do You Value the Most, In Your Married Life?

Or lets say, whats that particular factor, if missing, you think, your married life would have been incomplete. I think there could be may factors which primarily constitute a marriage, but still what is that you value the most and you think it keeps you going well with it?

It be companionship, parenthood, sex, financial security, whatever… I know they all are potential but what, being the most of it, please :slight_smile:

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Im not married but, I guess, when your spouse is there to help you solve problems.... be it financial, parenthood etc...

summing it up... I mean companionship... :)

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to leed a gud life ur nazarya/point of views shud b same

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:k:

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my hasbands money<3

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Pal, companionship cannot necessarily bring you parenthood too, can it? How?

Again, financial security and companionship are not interrelated too.

Alright if you value companionship the most, meaning your spouse is a wonderful companion. The one who understand even whats going on inside you and remains by your side through think and thin time testes, but fails to give you a child? (If you are a male financial security shouldnt be your concern so im not bringing in that aspect here)

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Even if you have all the possible bounties of life and lacking this nazarya/ point of view thing same, would it be alright for you.

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and what about kids, kiddo?

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Thats right, I talked about the aspect I will value the most... Sex, kids etc... follow up :p

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I think it's the 'feeling of comfort' that we enjoy in each other's company. I can be my-crazy-self without having to fear his judgement and same goes for him. We value that and based on our natures agree that it would have been very difficult if any of us was uptight.

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:k: nice to read that :slight_smile: this is something which actually makes the shadi worthwhile.

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Biryani and karai gosht

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Communication

Patience

no matter how long you've been married for and how much you love your partner, sometimes we shouldn't just guess what the other is thinking and the reasons why he acted in that particular way, always talk about it before jumping to conclusions or wait for the right moment , which leads me to my second point, all men and women have their own up and downs and sometimes for no apparent reasons, we don't really understand why our partner is sad or angry but we need to be patient and wait for the right moment for him/her to open up and talk about it, instead of looking for trouble and creating an argument

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:barbie: you can have them at restaurants too :smack:

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Nope, not like the one my wife cooks.

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Letting Go. Understanding and Love

I think letting go of fights, arguments and understanding eachother as much as possible is Extremely important, on the other hand, I believe if there is no love then relationships cant last. We love our parents, our siblings and thus let go of alot of things they say or do, similarly when we love our spouse, we let go because there is a will to be together, there is a will to understand each-other.

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aww now thats really lovely. Only that your wife could come and read it. Little appreciations from our husbands shoot us right to the cloud 9 :@:

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Trust!