This may be a really odd question, but opinions please.
Would it be a good idea to just stop talking to your fiance? Especially if you have recently spoken to them lots & lots. You are happy with the engagement and all is well but not getting married for some time yet.
Reasons for are that things recently seem to just get uncomfortable, most importantly because in the back of your mind you have a little niggling feeling that you are not actually married yet & feel that you are really attatched to them.
Reasons against are that you actually like their presence even if you don’t have anything to say, if that makes sense. & will miss them lots. Also, don’t know how they will feel about it.
its good to reduce communication...........but with mutual agreement.........if you just shut down without the other person being on the same page............they will get a wrong signal.
Whats wrong with getting attached or missing someone you're gonna marry. It's a good thing.
Also, if you stop talking to them they will just assume that you are angry at them or you dont wanna marry them
Fully enjoy ur last few days/months/years with ur family u r going to miss them after ur wedding..u have ur whole life ahead of u to spend with ur future spouse..but dont cut off without mutual consent..the more u talk the more u r going to miss ur fiance hence frustration of not being together-result: nagging/fights
Plus he still is na-mehram for u if thats whats on ur mind
This may be a really odd question, but opinions please.
Would it be a good idea to just stop talking to your fiance? Especially if you have recently spoken to them lots & lots. You are happy with the engagement and all is well but not getting married for some time yet.
Reasons for are that things recently seem to just get uncomfortable, most importantly because in the back of your mind you have a little niggling feeling that you are not actually married yet & feel that you are really attatched to them.
Reasons against are that you actually like their presence even if you don't have anything to say, if that makes sense. & will miss them lots. Also, don't know how they will feel about it.
i would advise that u stop talking to him because:
-after sometime all the lovey dovey talks will end and fights start
-both of urs insecurities will increase as the time of wedding comes near,that would give rise to more fights and resentment
-give a fresh start to this relationship after marriage
-the less u talk before marriage,the less points ur hubby would have to give u taanas after marraige..
