Re: What do you think of people..
aalhan good thoughts
suroor..
why does it have to be chocolates and roses and a card to show affection? I mean, lets be ourselves, if you want to make someone feel special, it does not have to include showing it in a generic manner one day of the year which has no personal meaning to you.
Why not a surprise weekend trip at a nice resort and a spa package out of the blue or when you see your significant other stressed due to work? why not get them something he/she has been eye-ing but has not
very recently wifey surprised me with a case of Lilt (which is hard to find in US), a bunch of time-out chocos, and couple of jars of clotted cream from devon cream co..all special ordered from london. Just cuz she knew I like the stuff and have been craving it off and on since I have not made it back to London in some time. That meant more to me than if she had bought me a card and stuff on v-day. There is a particular dessert that she really likes, last week when i was busy as hell at work, i stopped by some place on the way back and picked it up for her.
flipping over to a new week in my pda and seeing she has left notes for me already is also a sweet and nice and very personal gesture that is so much in line with her personality than buying me a card.
and the cards we do get one another are blank, we write the words, we pick the poems or write them..
I see guys rushing into walgreens on the way back from work on v-day and sifting thru cards to find the best of whats left and pick up a box of whatever chocolates is there..that shows some sentiment.
Its the thought that counts but what kinda thought goes into that