What do you think kills a relationship?


Add any others you think kills a relationship.


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Lack of communication. I know it mayb e the result of the first 2 in the given list but it’ll surely end up with #5, 6 and 7.

Bad teeth…

:rotfl:

All of the above.

Not pakaaeng Gol roti

All of the above + bad compatibility. I have seen couples who have their own individualities. Two opposite personalities. Both are good but they are very different in the way they like to live life. Nothing is wrong with both partners but they are mismatched due to having opposite habits. Such people live together due to kids as their marriage dies soon due to so many basic differences in personalities. So, yes compatibility issues.

How would two individuals determine if they have good compatibility together?

4,8 & 11 in my opinion

Chaiwali (i love your nick, btw),

it shows in personalities. If there are any personality clashes before marriage, they’ll show up and turn much more serious after marriage because after marriage two opposite personalities are living together under one roof. So those clashes prior to marriage will only intensify. Look for the ways both partners do things. Sometimes, the adaptability from each partner & an open accepting attitude helps and some clashes of opposite personalities are no more there due to both partners adapting to the other partners ways creating a common ground. But if both partners also have adaptability issues then two opposite personalities living together will be bad compatibility.

Sometimes one or both partners force themselves to accept the habits of other partner which they highly dislike & are very uncomfortable around keeping that personal dislike all inside. Then other stresses of raising a family also add up to the existing dislike arising from opposite habits. That dooms the relationship.

  1. Breach of trust
  2. No boundaries
  3. Insincerity / Burri niyyat

BTW, lies cause doom to even business & everything else. Not just relationships. Lies = insincerity & worse

Assumptions! When someone just assumes things without asking or making sure they are not in error, completely destroys the relationship.

Selfishness, but that’s like ego (number 1) right?

Cheating and being a “Hoe” goes for both men and women.

PS. I’m not being sexist here so the feminiazis don’t @ me.

**Asking an accurate and good question is an art in itself. The quality of the answer always depends on the quality of the question asked.

This question sounded more like ‘How to kill/ruin a relationship?’ Lol…:smiley:

I think we should be more careful for ‘how to keep a relationship’…
So I will reply for this, For me, these are required to keep any relationship healthy…

  1. Caring for each other, no matter what the situation is.

  2. Respecting each others views, personalities, thoughts, actions…

  3. Being truthful to each other, on every single matter.

  4. Giving each other proper time.

  5. Loving unconditionally to each other.

  6. Listening and understanding each other…And if there is misunderstanging, discussing and clearing it immediately rather than judging each other…

  7. Maintaining ‘personal space’ in a way that no one gets hurt (by cooperation of course).

  8. Though I believe there are some things that couldnt be shared and should be kept secret but still maintaining this secrecy thing in a way which should not be hurting or harmful.

  9. If there is an argument, that should not be an attitude or ego problem. Argument se naraz ho jaein lekin argument krne wale se nae.

  10. There should not be so much distance or space between them that lets a third person/party enter and play games.

And I think in case of halal relationship like husband and wife, the ‘time’ spent during intimacy has a major impact on keeping the relationship healthy. It plays a vital role.

Ab how to kill a relationship k liye ye sarey points ko ulta ya negative kr lo feyr dekho jaan kitni jaldi chutey gi :nerd:**

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LOL doing this, the girl will most likely leave you for the “A$$HOLE”

**My post was not directed to the relationship between a guy and a girl, rather it was for any relationship in general…
But your observation is quite right too…

Aren’t they supposed to leave you for 'Aholes, fboys in anyways…??? I mean thats what girls are good at… :hmmm:*

Let me say 1 thing. “Granted”

Ego

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Look who’s back!! Welcome shelcome. Hope life is good. :d6c:

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jerking off??? I mean I dont know…what the efff man…