What do you talk about in a gathering.

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So this question goes to all Ladies and gentlemen.
In a gathering What are topics that you usually talk about?
What are the topics that you refrain from talking about?
What are the topics you would like to talk about?

Do tell us with relevance to the age group/ethnicity/status etc of the people in the gathering.

For instance in a gathering with Pakistanis the topics may differ a little as compared to a gathering with goras .
In a gathering with elderly people the topics may differ as compared to in a gathering with people in their 20’s.

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

I keep quiet, observe and muse.

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

and there is nothing you would even like to talk about jalpari ?

For me if its cousins…then We talk abt

  • our school/uni days..
  • our common school/uni frnds
  • about our teachers and
  • the situation of our school..
  • then abt problems we face…
  • then we discuss a lil abt the future…
  • and abt our khandaan etc etc

If frnds then we discuss…

  • school/uni/work and
  • our frnds…and
  • our problems…and
  • sometimes abt fashion…

If I am sitting with my chacha’s …then I prefer to sit quietly and listen…I :jano: sitting with chacha’s and me being the only girl who likes their discussions abt business and politics and work..i am usually the only one sitting with them.

If in a party where the only person I know(the host) is busy with other guests I talk abt general stuff..like how r u..where r u from…for how long hv u been here…do u like it here …and wht do you do..and wht I do etc etc

But The gatherings I would like are the ones that are informative…a gathering where I would observe quietly and experts in fields such as IT/Business?economics/art/Philosophy and people who have traveled a lot sit and share their experiences.***

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

Not really.

Gatherings are not my thing, unless its strictly my own friends.

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

depends who attends the gathering.

friends ..then i d talk about anything and everything ..
not frends ..then i d limit my convo to hello hi how are you and where ya from and what brings you here ..

if its family ..then .. i d stay quiet ..never know i might say something ..then back fire on me later on lol

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

Number one topic i will talk about in my social gatherings with friends is Pakistan and it’s state and how to improve my country… :jhanda:
Even among Gorras i constantly speak of my homeland and tell them it is home not to terrorists but a complicated and ancient system of life and that it is a modern country not some medieval one… and that our nations problems are caused by their nations and that our problems are thier problems too.

Secondly i hate talking about other people and backbiting which is a common thing among fellow Pakistanis and the young men always start talking about the ladies and by which time i excuse myself and tell them i have other duties as a married man.

Finally i love talking about martial arts, being a man of martial blood it’s hard not to talk about fighting and killing… besides knowing my pasts i will admit there is a joy to such skills in life… a sort of feral joy. May Allah forgive me for it.

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

double post

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with ur friends what do you discuss?

backfire :smack:

What about the goras…do they only listen to you talk about Pakistan?Or do they discuss other topics too with you besides Pakistan and martial art?

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

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What about the goras....do they only listen to you talk about Pakistan?Or do they discuss other topics too with you besides Pakistan and martial art?
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^ Gorras speak of their own country and we share our knowledge on customs beliefs and so on...

Also it is great for comparring and sorting out differences... a lot of people say integrate.. but integration is stupid Gorras cannot be like us and we cannot be like them nor is there any need to be however talking about one anothers good and bad points helps us to come together and learn mutual respect.

Gorras have thier own distinct martial arts, and ours are very different... in Europe they are foccused more on cadenced warfare and fighting... where one man fights as a group or team and each member has a special skill....
My own arts rely on high level training of single combat and cadenced fighting is not a main focus on the traditional aspects.

The differnces in styles and attitudes are miles apart but both styles work well and have thier good and bad points.

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

Oh so many topics .

  • Politics
  • Girls
  • Jokes
  • Old school friends
  • Technology
  • Jobs
  • Food
  • Staring at women
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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

Namaan you forgot to mention GS :hehe:

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

Which woman is hot and which one is not.

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I don’t have any real life friend on GS :wink:

Always keep your virtual and real life separate :k: (unless you find someone really hot :wink: )

:cb:

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

Aaaw i see… This is all new to me. Sorta :konfused:

Well even on virtual world i am still 100% real :cb:

And virtual world friends are real people… some of them anyway. So its all good.

And as a married man theres no hot or cold for me Yaar.

I learned to bypass all that stuff a long time ago.

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

i usually talk what the other person wants to talk.

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and when ur travelling alone and need to break the ice, how would u?

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

I talk about whatever the person i’m with wants to talk about, but i try to steer discussions towards topics that can be considered of mutual interest.

So that’s mainly stuff like gossip, daal stirring, star plus dramas, lawn material etc and so forth. :chai:

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Re: What do you talk about in a gathering.

^ you forgot bollywood movies!!! HOW COULD YOU!! :halo:

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food too :cb:

:smack:
I told ya…you never answer my threads seriously…sirf aik dafa ans kiya tha :naraz:

and you dont wish to discuss any particular topic?

I will pour water over the ice or put it out in the sun to melt :@:

star plus :bummer:

and you dont talk about anything:emmy:

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I think i would start with a hello or hi...and talk abt the place we r in....how pretty it is...or abt its service..strik a convo like that then ask from where r u and wht do u do etc etc