TLK, Here he/she means something else. What I got is, questioning someone for following such pagan practices with tone and telling others simply that you don’t follow it or you don’t reply with yarhamukAllah, are two different things.
Firstly I’m a bhai sahab and coming back to the topic I replied for question OP asked in the first post. First read and then try to understand what I meant.
Muslim but we are in a professional setting, where other people would be confused if we suddenly started speaking in Urdu or Arabic.
Sometimes, I’m absent-minded and miss the moment then I don’t say anything. Followed by awkward silence.
My family doesn’t say alhamdulillah loudly. We just say it internally. So there has never been a need to say yarhamukAllah loudly. “Bless you” would be highly awkward with family because we communicate mainly in Urdu.
One of my chachus used to exclaim “Oye shabash aye” when someone around him sneezed. It used to make us laugh always.