How could you have a love then arranged marriage? meaning you fell in love, told your parents, and then they talked to each other and OK'd it? I don't think that's a love arranged marriage. That's straight up love. Unless there's some sort of unspoken mutual infatuation between 2 ppl, and then parents turn that into a rishta. actually that is kind of cute. Kind of like hum saath saath hain :) I prefer arranged- I don't know how i could go about lowering my gaze and falling in love at the same time.
Re: What Do You Prefer?,Arranged or Love Marriage?
doesn't matter how you fall in love it can happen through arranged and love before marriage what difference does it make sooner or later romance is romance.
can someone please explain their concept of love turned arranged? I don;t know how once you already choose someone, you can have it "arranged". So I don't know what you have in mind with this. At that point it is already a love marriage.
can someone please explain their concept of love turned arranged? I don;t know how once you already choose someone, you can have it "arranged". So I don't know what you have in mind with this. At that point it is already a love marriage.
Given that both parties are understanding, considerate, loving, rational and are (were) not involved elsewhere, all arranged marriages would evolve into a relationship based on deep love. Having said that, sooner or later, 'the plateau effect' would take over most love marriages.
Not all 'arranged' couples fall into a bond based on deep love after marriage, sometimes the love never comes and they just end up indifferent to each other. Also, The 'plateau' effect is equally likely to happen in arranged as in love marriages. One other thing I've noticed is that when one partner dies in arranged marriages the husband often gets remarried quite quickly whilst in the cases I've seen where the couple had a love marriage maybe 30/40 odd years ago the husband often does not remarry at all. Obviously, love marriages in those days weren't as accepted as they are today so I suppose if a couple went against the societal 'norm' to be together all those years ago there could be a stronger bond.