Such as when someone may assume your lazy, or cant cook, or seedi saadi…or something along those lines that are said not with malice but just someone who thinks you could be that way and you find it insulting…
my mums friend who met me last week for the first time, saw me and my lil sister, my lil sister is skinny college student who wears skinny jeans and whatnot, and was about to go college, i was in the same room as her 6 months preg and wearing salwar kamiz…the lady thought i was seedi saadi…ey??
come again???
I found this insulting/annoying/whatever, just cos she saw me wearing salwar kamizzz is that it?
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Another one, my cousin made fried chicken the other day, my auntie advised me and others not to eat it because it was still kacha in places, now altough aunt meant it in a health and safety way, my cousin was all offended.
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When I plan to meet someone and they tell me like few minutes before the meeting that they can't make it due to whatever reasons. I feel all offended (although the reason may be valid)
When I plan to meet someone and they tell me like few minutes before the meeting that they can't make it due to whatever reasons. I feel all offended (although the reason may be valid)
Such as when someone may assume your lazy, or cant cook, or seedi saadi...or something along those lines that are said not with malice but just someone who thinks you could be that way and you find it insulting...
my mums friend who met me last week for the first time, saw me and my lil sister, my lil sister is skinny college student who wears skinny jeans and whatnot, and was about to go college, i was in the same room as her 6 months preg and wearing salwar kamiz....the lady thought i was seedi saadi.....ey??
come again???
I found this insulting/annoying/whatever, just cos she saw me wearing salwar kamizzz is that it?
GRRRR, rant over...yours?
Seriously?
Another one, my cousin made fried chicken the other day, my auntie advised me and others not to eat it because it was still kacha in places, now altough aunt meant it in a health and safety way, my cousin was all offended.
Maybe she should cook better rather than get offended?
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I don't usually get offended but I do remember i cried very easily when I was pregnant on small little issues.. like someone telling me to not wear this that.. or don't eat this that. otherwise I can a lot before I get offended or upset!
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She thinks you're seedhi saadhi...less people for you to please...less work overall. Everyone is happy...how can that possibly be an issue?
But then again, I do know people who have issues with everything. Life is very difficult for them because they cant seem to find peace in anything...as in nothing will make them feel better because everything and everyone is out to get them...lol
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As such I dont have any issues with anyone but I jes get upset when ppl start complaining for no reason.. ohoooooooooo nida tum toh milti he nahi ho, bade log hain app toh and stuff like that. I am all blank! People passing on weird comments is just not acceptable but then after a while I am fine, Cuz I knw its prolly their brought up or their nature to complain.
Plus one advise you which I gave to someone who also used to get very easily offended too.
Haar cheez ko ya baat ko pakar kay nahi beth jana chahye … try let go of few things / comments …life will get much better for you.
chillax