Even when you know there nothing that could be done anymore, you know that all the doors are shut on your face and you have nowhere to go…what do you do? There is no reason for being hopeful about a certain situation but still there is a little hope left for no reason…how do you make yourself come to terms with the reality and tell yourself that its all over now and there is nothing that can be done about it so there is no point in having even that little bit of hope!?
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Let it hit you naturally...with time, or if it is really bothering you, make a conscious decision to get over it.
However, if you do see some light, perhaps you should pursue it instead of completely letting go.
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Light is there just to bother me i guess...when the reality is totally opposite of how i would have wanted it to be...so i want to get over it ONCE AND FOR ALL and i am trying to (and that to really hard) yet nothing happens...there is no point in trying to pursue that light when you know nothing will happen its just that i can`t come to terms with the reality (for some reason).
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Don't be so hard on yourself...give yourself some time.
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Don't be so hard on yourself...give yourself some time.
Been one year, yet nothing has changed...I think Ive been way to easy on myself.
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Take a piece of paper and start writing about what happened , what went wrong , how it could have been better. What can be done in future and above all what is the worst case scenario if what you are hoping for does not go the way you wish it could go.
Don't forget to take inventory of good things in your life on that piece of paper which are more important then the event you are hoping for.
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Easy said then done! i have filled pages and pages yet doesn't help...i know i sound stupid but nothing is helping at all...even when i am trying hard or i just let it be no matter what i do its just stuck to me...i want to get rid of it...
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(Thank you).
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Teelo, have you tried talking to someone about it? Venting it out to people (even strangers) can really help.
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I did..I told my friends but nothing helps...
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"it takes time" is so cliche, maybe that's just not enough depending on the situation. often you need a change in atmosphere or something/someone new to enter your life so that you can see a brighter and happier future ahead of you.
"it takes time" is so cliche, maybe that's just not enough depending on the situation. often you need a change in atmosphere or something/someone new to enter your life so that you can see a brighter and happier future ahead of you.
I have been like this since one year now...and i want to change it, change is definitely needed but its not coming on its own so i want to force myself to do something in order to change the way i have been since so long...i am in a complete mess..,don't know what to do..and the funny thing is i have tried everything people have mentioned here yet it just doesn't go away...time (as i said its been over an year now), tried to forget it/let it go through different ways, thought over it, talked about it, prayed etc..