when you keep thinking that someone is trying to sabotage your relationship with your best friend and trying to steal her from you?
Your best friend needs to feel the same way to keep the friendship at its best.
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that happened to me 2 years back. some girl was like telling lies about me to my best friend and woudl tell me lies about her too. I caught on really fast, but my "best friend" didn't; she believed her. I tried really hard to explain to her what was going on, but she didn't want to listen. In the end, I decided that I really didn't want a best friend, or just a friend even, that didn't have enough faith in my words to believe me. I'm much happier now.
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Wait and watch how faithful your friend is ?
None can sabotage any relation unless.........you know what I mean ?
You should be strong enough to let these kind of people go from you life.
She should have the freedom to make as many best buddies as she wishes. That would not mean that others are trying to steal her from you. If your friendship is strong, regardless of how many best friends she has; ur friendship shouldn't be affected.
Your best friend needs to feel the same way to keep the friendship at its best.
How do i make her feel the same way? I hope she does, but if she does not, what should i do?
that happened to me 2 years back. some girl was like telling lies about me to my best friend and woudl tell me lies about her too. I caught on really fast, but my "best friend" didn't; she believed her. I tried really hard to explain to her what was going on, but she didn't want to listen. In the end, I decided that I really didn't want a best friend, or just a friend even, that didn't have enough faith in my words to believe me. I'm much happier now.
lahorikudi i think something similar is happening. some girl told my bestfriend that i told someone else that this girl was my bestfriend and not her and she thought that girl was right. she got on my case and stopped talking to me and she is like because of you and your ways my reputation is getting affected. i mean wtf is that all about? then i sorted out the lies but she does not blindly trust me now and that also because of some other girl who she thinks is right!
Wait and watch how faithful your friend is ? None can sabotage any relation unless.........you know what I mean ?
You should be strong enough to let these kind of people go from you life.
So you mean to say, i should not do anything and not become envious and all that?
She should have the freedom to make as many best buddies as she wishes. That would not mean that others are trying to steal her from you. If your friendship is strong, regardless of how many best friends she has; ur friendship shouldn't be affected.
Maverick the sad truth is that, that girl has told me that she is tying to steal my bestfriend. she just cannot see her and me happy.
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How do i make her feel the same way? I hope she does, but if she does not, what should i do?
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Hard it may be but truth is if she is not feeling the same way than you should also move on assuming that you have talked to her and shared you concerns with her.
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Bebo, what if in your heart you do not want to. Even if in your mind you have done all the reasonings that your bestfriend is being a stubborn cow and does not listen to you and just causes more and more misunderstandings and hurt you all the time. I simply do not want to let go of her. What do i do!
Bebo, what if in your heart you do not want to. Even if in your mind you have done all the reasonings that your bestfriend is being a stubborn cow and does not listen to you and just causes more and more misunderstandings and hurt you all the time. I simply do not want to let go of her. What do i do!
aaaw sweety..u r so cute how ur so adamant..if u cna keep taking the hurt that ull go thru while trying ot convince ur friend sthne go ahead but it might just become too much at one point and then it might be best to just let go..with the tpassage of time u will learn to live ur life without his friend of yours..ull find happiness in other htings..
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freindships evolve, sometimes its time to move on, we dont always like change but it happens in one way or another.
What are you? A second grader? 
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i think let go of your friend if she is your real friends she will come back i am saying this with experience or leave her alone she will realize her mistake
How do i make her feel the same way? I hope she does, but if she does not, what should i do?
lahorikudi i think something similar is happening. some girl told my bestfriend that i told someone else that this girl was my bestfriend and not her and she thought that girl was right. she got on my case and stopped talking to me and she is like because of you and your ways my reputation is getting affected. i mean wtf is that all about? then i sorted out the lies but she does not blindly trust me now and that also because of some other girl who she thinks is right! So you mean to say, i should not do anything and not become envious and all that?
Maverick the sad truth is that, that girl has told me that she is tying to steal my bestfriend. she just cannot see her and me happy.
Yeah, i would say that you let her go. IF she's really your friend, you have nothing to worry about! And if she isn't then yeah it'll hurt a little for a while, but in the long run it'll be worth it.
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sigh so much drama...
I like to keep my friendships strong and simple. In a way its an open relationship, they are allowed to have as many close friends as they like, i am too. I don't bother or complain about how i wasn't invited to this or that and I told them they can't either and that I do hang out without them with other friends. But then again i dont really have that one best friend, I am close or "best friend"ish to like 3 of them.
Wait and watch how faithful your friend is ? None can sabotage any relation unless.........you know what I mean ?
You should be strong enough to let these kind of people go from you life.
this is what i have always believed . if you friends cannot understand why do you need to get worried :)
an imposter? 