So last night me and my husband were talking and i made a point of something that he disagreed with. I bought up couple of examples and still we were not agreeing - i think i should have said sorry afterwards and he should have apologised as well. But instead after 30mins we started talking in normal voices and acted like nothing had happened and were back to our usual behaviour - watching tv, laughing and joking etc…!
Does that happen to other married couple - not making a big deal of something and rather than addressing it - just ignore and move on as how it was…???
if by ignoring it works for u than ok ...but if you both ignore it and keep it in your heart against each other (:D) than thats not good. Waisey bhi honestly i think its better to discuss and find a solution than to ignore or compromise unwillingly.
Age old idiom is good in this case:
All is well if it ends well. You were joking , talking normally afterward it means all is well don't fret over it , move on.
with us…he can ignore stuff and move on.but its reallllly hard for me to do that…i just cant sleep until the issue is resolved…lol…he hates this thing but i cant help it…either i have to convince him that i am right or i will force him to convince me k he is right…