Re: …What Do You Do…
anger is not women’s nature.
she becomes angry when she is hurt.
so, when she becomes angry, it is not good.
doing something about it is not at all, useful. there are many components to the issue of anger. it has to be warranted first off.
then, warnings are given.
if warnings do not matter, then anger is practiced.
it is nice that people (men) can acknowledge that women get hurt.
weeping is different than crying.
if someone is not a good partner or is insensitive, then he deserves nothing.
he can go around and throw himself into the misery of life and even false justification of ill-begotten so called pleasure, but he knows that whoever he hurt and angered, will always be with him, no matter what he does.
memories cannot be erased.
for the honest and brave ones, owning up to the hurt caused will and may win them respect. but it is not for the weak of heart and mind.
so Shikra bhai saheb, be nice and honest an caring always to Mom, sister and Mrs. Shikra, always 
on a serious and broader note,
of course good men be nice spouses, brothers, sons and fathers as well. and hope is one day the society can live the ideal of respecting women as people and not annoy them delibrately. that wont get men any peace and they will always be regretting their immaturity.
dushwari