Okie so I have this real close friend and he’s been going through a lot lately, lost his job found another one running around, gettin a new falt, tryin to get the trade license, lots of stuff…he’s basically fagged out day in and day out.
I can’t really help him with anything, except be supportive, call him every day and just ask him how he’s doin, feels kinda foolish..sometimes I think the phone call is a disturbance, but he doesn’t complain.
I dunno he’s like majorly stressed, worried he may have a break down, whenever I talk to him I always make him laugh so he ends up with a big smile on his face and a hearty HAHA… damn I wish I could do more.
His breakfats, lunch and dinners are rushed, not like I can meet up with him he’s always in a major hurry, going somewhere, can’t even surprise him with a packed lunch coz he’s never in the same place.
I hate seeing him stressed, he’s always been this happy go lucky kinda fella…wht can I do to help him?
You are the nicest friend, sweety. You already are doing everything you can with making him laugh, listening and just being there. They mean more than anything. He will slow down on his own.
Consider yourself lucky LK, you have someone who can keep you busy...Busy people are great motivations to keep striving...Try to keep up, but draw certain lines...
Lajo....naah man when I see him I thank God I'm not that stressed out..busy I am..but not stressed, and I'm glad he can come to me for comic relief and to chill/vent etc...
We do talk about his porblems coz he likes going over them for himself and seeing how he can make things better...so it's all good I suppose.