*~*what do we look for in a life partner*~*

Re: ~*what do we look for in a life partner~*

only in Canada.

PM. lol. You totally missed the point of my post. But I am sure your advice will be helpful to some people around here.

Then men from Canada shud be avoided like the plague! Thank yew for enlightening me! Phew!

That's my best skill.

in canada!!

worry no more.

^ You are contradicting yourself PunchingMonk, you just warned me against men in Canada..

Nah, Canada is too cold for my liking anyway.

Re: ~what do we look for in a life partner~

Brains & confidence. :chai:

Re: ~*what do we look for in a life partner~*

I know this uncle who mashAllah is such a good husband....he carries his newborn daughter around in a baby Bjorn. gosh...just that image inspires instant crushes from all females nearby. His wife's relatives were over and he showed them around our town. He is very bossy in that Pakistani mard sort of way yet he is so caring to his wife. The other day at a dawat he was arguing about McCain while burping his baby, cuz his wife was heating the food. Sometimes guys act like caring about their wife means they are totally whipped...but one can see in him someone very masculine yet very kind. I guess it helps his wife is really nice too. I would write more but it would sound stalkerish.

that's exactly how a man should be. Unfortunately some men try to act macho without the substance of real manhood, which demands responsibility, thoughtfulness, strong moral standing, composure and charisma.

im not just picking you but i see most girls here said that education is what they look for..my question to you girls is ..what if the guy is not educated enough but is very successful in running his own business or just fortunate enough to land in a profession that would increase his salary for watever reason every now and then....and like making 6 figure income per year?..

or do u girls want education just so he knows how to socialize in a better way and/or u could show off in ur family about how educated he is?..and not caring how much he earns based on his education??..

Re: ~*what do we look for in a life partner~*

Well, the showing off part certainly helps. The real question is - will the guy who is like the one you've described be willing to marry a girl who is more educated than he is?

If she isn't more educated than him - hell yes, she'd like to marry a guy who makes 6 figures.

**How To Find Life Partner In Five Easy Steps

  1. Create a wish list of traits and material things you want in Mr./Ms. Right.
  2. Find someone who looks and acts like Mr./Ms. Right and fall for him/her.
  3. Be disappointed because Mr./Ms. Right isn’t so Right. He/She is just human.
  4. Get frustrated and start the blame blame game.
  5. Be sure to ruin two lives simultaneously and repeat again.


You’ll know when he or she comes along…**