I am not a parent yet Afia abhee toh mein ghair shadi shuda azaad panchee hoon :biggrin: but i don’t think i can ever be as good a mother as my mother or anyone can be as good a father as my father…
i know many members r not a parent yet.........but still many times we have differences with our parents and think....if iwas him/her i would do this or that.......
i mean......just assume
I'm hardly a responsible adult. At this point in time I wouldnt be a responsible parent. I wouldnt really want to compare myself to my parents, because to me it isnt possible in the least.
ideal parenting style is authoritarian; parents r not very permissive but at the same time they give them lot of attention and love and be their friends.
there r cetain things about my parents that i dont like :) so probably wont follow that but i think i'll end up being like them..heh.
your parents were better than you(as parent) or vice versa
which good traits of your parents you miss in yourself
or
which problems were there with your parents…you think, YOU don’t have…or won’t have
curious to see your response…!**
Certainly I can’t be good in peotry as Allama was…but one can always learn from others. Every individual has different personality and views of life. It is not necessary that you wil be the same as your parents were to you.
just take a look at this website you’ll find some interesting hints