Do you believe in this? “Memories just keep coming through, the good ones hurt more than the bad ones do”? if you think the good ones hurt more, why is that? because we want them back? or is it because they remind us of how foolish we were to let them go, then create the feeling or guilt and regret?
And, if you think the bad ones hurt more, why so? is it because they’re too hard and bad to bare? are humans that weak, that they can’t let go bad memories?
P.S: well here ya goo NAJIM ..one topic for you not in red:waves:
Re: what do u say about it???
It's just a matter of perspective.Sometimes, people get sadder at good memories,especially when they remember the 'good old times'(and am I ashamed of using this cliche!:-)Comparing past happiness with present miseries makes them sad.While at other times,thinking of bad times might make you sadder.Partly,because we have the capacity to relive that misery.
Personally,it depends on my mood.Sometimes thinking about good memories make me sad,but most of the time they bring a smile to the face.And being an 'escapist',I usually mange to avoid thinking about bad times.:-)
Don't know how it is with others,but I have this capacity to 'live' and 'relive' situations,more so the ones in fiction.I hope it's normal*gulps*