when u thought someone/some ppl was so great .. n u praised them so highly n u thought they the nicest person / people there could be in this world only to later find out that theyr or were annoyed with u n do not think the same of u or some of ur family members .. n say theyr only nice to u on the top cause theres somthing in it for them but u know deep down they do not think very highly of u
how do u keep from feeling so silly n sad ? especially when now u know they never deserved any(well not any of it but most of it) of the praise that u gave them.. n say u even praised them in front of them .. how do u keep from feeling so utterly bad n stupid?..
how do u stop urself from avoiding them when u cant cause only now uv realised this n u cannot n will not be able to avoid them in future cause theyr gonna be important in ur life soon ..?
If someone is good at something, I accept it .. without being biased. No matter if he is my enemy, I accept it!
I can't stand with someone if I don't feel respect for me in his/her eyes. Just can't. So if i find that the next person does not give me that respect, he is already grounded in my eyes 'caz of his/her this attitude! .. .. .. which automatically takes me away from 'em .. ..
Oh god I can so relate and my thread in life is similar and related to this. I feel this way too, I praised the wrong person or praised too much only to lose them now :)
I'm guessing this "someone" is either from your in-laws or associated with them. There seems to quite a bit of tension involved with this rishta.
Being wrong about people is a part of life. You might feel sad, but I think it's better to know how they feel so that you can be more careful in your interactions with this person. If you can't avoid them....and know that you'll be running into them frequently, keep it polite/civil. Don't get too close to them. Don't reveal personal details of your life to them......as not everyone can be trusted. And if this individual is highly regarded by others around you, avoid gossiping about this person to others. Detached....but polite/civil.