dear all !!! i’m going through an unbelievably desperate state at the moment , my heart is all wrecked , my immediate family in pakistan is facing tough time ( in many ways) and i feel like i’m lost & my soul all shattered as i’m far from them , have no shoulder to cry at( have already done it with my spouse a hundred time though) , and than there’s a long line of relatives who r just adding fuel to the fire by commenting and non stop questioning , please i need peace , does anyone know any dua for that .I’ve so much to do right now but i couldn’t , b/c i can’t concentrate .
Re: what do u do when u're desperate
I am sorry to hear that you are going through tough times. You did not describe what the problem seems to be but nevertheless, just try to remember that prophet (s.a.w) and the sahaba have gone through tougher times than ours so we are nothing in front of them. And also remember when Yusuf (a.s) stayed in prison for years and He (a.s) had nothing but patience with Him. Have faith in Allah because whenever Allah puts a muslim through a test, Allah also forgives his/her sins in return in he/she has Sabr. Allah says in Surah Shahr (94) in Verse 6 that "Verily, along with every hardship is relief" so rest assured that Allah will inshaAllah help you provided that you wait with Sabr. Whenever I am faced with hardship, I pray to Allah to remove it and make the following duas.
*Rabb Inniy Maghloob Fantasir (O my Rabb, I'm overcome, please help me)
*You also may recite the last verse of Surah Baqarah.
PS - But remember that nothing can be compared to Sabr.:) . May Allah make your problems easy for you and provide you and your family Sabr and Guidance.
Re: what do u do when u're desperate
The last three Quls are very important, if you are being pestered by the jealous whisperers! recite them with Fajr and Isha prayers.