what do u do when u say NO for a ex-boyfriend?

There is no harm in her asking for our opinions, regardless of religion.

Janete - Get out your dad’s shot gun next time he bothers you!

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If it moves, salute it; if it doesn’t move, pick it up; if you can’t pick it up, paint it. **

the zorbonian mafia can help… we are proud to say that ** "our mafia kills u 6 times before ur body touches the ground " **

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so fee required sis… just give us his address… and then he is as good as dead (6 TIMES )

Hey guys don't you think you're getting too heated?

Islamically speaking and otherwise violence is not called for before all other avenues are exhausted - so cool it.


Jitna Diya Sarkar Nay Mujko, Itni Meri Auqat Nahi, Yeh Saab Tumhara Karam Hai Aqa, Mujh Mein Aisi Koi Baat Nahin.

Love happens once . . .

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Originally posted by Mr Xtreme:
**ok Shirin, i'll have a go.

Janete,

muslims are supposed to treat women with a very high deal of respect because they are not supposed to be just sex objects. The best analogy i can think of wrt your question is when a man asked the prophet (SAW) if it was ok to commit adultery and the Prophet (SAW) asked the man if he would want the same for his own mother or sister. The point being, that the guy wouldn't want his mother or sister to be used and abused so he shouldn't indulge in the same himself with someone else's mother or sister.

it's not exactly relative to your case as you aren't talking about adultery, but the issue of respect is still the same. you did mention that your boyfriend didn't respect you so there is some similarity.

That's just my opinion BTW on what an islamic viewpoint would be, it may not be right. **
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Thanks Xtreme
U stressed respect in a sweet way, like a pantiente and kind teacher. Thank u so much

Goncho, Asma and GM

thanks, u gave me good ideas

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Sadly he´s my new boss, u know “take care ur boss, the next might be worse…”

tell him you have herpes...


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