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Originally posted by Mr Xtreme:
**ok Shirin, i'll have a go.
Janete,
muslims are supposed to treat women with a very high deal of respect because they are not supposed to be just sex objects. The best analogy i can think of wrt your question is when a man asked the prophet (SAW) if it was ok to commit adultery and the Prophet (SAW) asked the man if he would want the same for his own mother or sister. The point being, that the guy wouldn't want his mother or sister to be used and abused so he shouldn't indulge in the same himself with someone else's mother or sister.
it's not exactly relative to your case as you aren't talking about adultery, but the issue of respect is still the same. you did mention that your boyfriend didn't respect you so there is some similarity.
That's just my opinion BTW on what an islamic viewpoint would be, it may not be right. **
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Thanks Xtreme
U stressed respect in a sweet way, like a pantiente and kind teacher. Thank u so much