what do people look in their life partners?

so what dyu look for in Ur spouse?Looks,intelligence,trust?
looking forward to ur replies.

[This message has been edited by queer (edited February 22, 1999).]

Love, faithfulness, respect,and love and love and love...
I know I have a lot of these to offer.But I do not know that
" mairay sapnoon ki rani kub aaigee too
beeti jai zindagani kub aaigai too
:):):):) :):);) ;) ;) ;)

life partner what else

Hmm. Its difficult to say. When you meet the right person, your criteria goes out of the window! Another thing - Its really a matter of perspective. Perhaps your criteria is fulfilled better than you expected/wanted!

i'll go for anyone.

Hey Loser,
That's really risky!

Dear Queer,

I have another question in reply to your question and that is:

what quality one should have for his / her spouse instead of looking for the qualities in others?

JAK,
That's a nice topic...why don't U post it? :)I shall surely reply to it.

yeah u are brave loser :)

[This message has been edited by zainab (edited February 25, 1999).]

queers and JAK great point.
We always focus on what we WANT, not what we should do for the other.

Relationships are great when you look at what you can do to make the other happy...and gain happiness from that.

I posted this in the other thread by uicdoc and now i am just copying it here.
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            The socioeconomic differences. This is a big issue. In many of the
            recent pakistani dramas and indian movies, they are telling us that
            money doen't make any difference. its old and conservative ideas.
            and the guy and the girl should marry.

            Now the question is that what did ou prophet Mohammud SAW said
            about this topic. He said that you should first look for the faith of the
            girl, what kind of muslim is she? does she follow namaz roza etc.
            Second thing is that YOU SHOUL MARRY IN YOUR OWN CLASS. if you
            are not very well economically then you should marry in the lower
            class. If rich then marry in upper class. I HOPE ALL OF YOU SHOULd
            UNDERSTAND NOW. Third thing is that how pretty is that girl. Many
            people also say that shakal is not important. It's wrong. I don't mean
            that you ask for the prettiest girl in the world. But should be
            reasonable.

MIRZA YASIR

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of course mirzayazir...

You have to like them, to want to be with them, to be attracted to them to marry them.