What do men bring to the table?

**So i was having a conversation with my friend pineapple and we were discussing plans for when I’ll be in Pakistan next. The subject matter was men and the Paki guys are, well, quite unique.
Anyway the conversation turned to 30 something spoiled men in Pakistan. They want the girl to have all of this and that but the question I have is what do they bring to the table?

Desi women of marriage potential must be:

  1. Willing to serve the in laws
  2. Work and earn money
  3. Relatively good looking–ie gori, patli, and tall
  4. Jahez
  5. A father rich enough and mother not interfering enough for hte couple to live comfortably.

But what does the dude bring to the table?

Money? The girl has a job so she can earn money.
Extra money? does she really need that extra cash?SHe is still making the same money even if he was not there.

And we all know thanks to Sex and the City even THAT men can be replaced.

The only thing I can think that a modern day 30 something desi guy brings to table is semi-adequate genes and a whole lot of attitude.**

Re: What do men bring to the table?

They bring papiaN te japiaN to the table… :sara:

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This is a direct violation of GS code 281. :emmy:

you mention pakistani men are looking for tall women...why is this? Just wondered as I am a 6 foot gori and always wondered why I attract pakistani men !

someone pls shed some light!! LOL

Desi men....not the tallest. So they see in you the opportunity to increase the chances of having taller offspring. Or maybe they just want a piggy-back ride (that could be what you bring to the table).

Who knows?

LOL!! Thats funny...but being tall is not as good as people think...yes I help people out in Supermarkets who cannot reach the shelves...but its not as nice as people beleive!! Finding clothes and a man taller than you can be a NIGHTMARE!!

hahaa..

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they will bring the hypocrisy and two-facedness

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catwomen- the question os the pakistani men who like you are they themselves tall? majority are not close to 6. not sure what the avg height is but I would say maybe 5'8" or 5'9"

maybe they have an amazon fantasy :D

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My mom and dad are short (5 feet, and 5’5" respectively) but my brother is 6 feet tall. I’m avg height (5’3")

Go figure :konfused:

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sue your bro, he stole some of your height.

I would say majority are slightly smalled...yes prob about the 5'9" mark...some taller than me....maybe they want tall kids or something lol

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we bring forks and spoon to the table to eat the sammich that you grls cook

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dunno how to break it to ya bro but sammiches aren't cooked

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Its funny that you posted this since i was having a similar conversation with my hubby and cousins the other day.

Apparently, no matter what age the guy is he bring nothing to the table.

For them it is good enough that they are guys however, their list of what the want in a girl is long and picky.

lol ... gosh man u're ruining the sammiches too then ...

LOL. I know.

Sammiches are at the very least "made"....created, invented, , grilled, put together, assembled, perfected..... But certainly not "cooked."

Re: What do men bring to the table?

they bring wisdom, security, responsiblity, and lots of love to the table

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holy cow seems like a contract to me

  1. Willing to serve the in laws - Like guys don't have to do that. Bailing out your good for nothing brother all the time was not part of the nikkah.
  2. Work and earn money - No need really. Well its better than you being lazy and sitting at home while the cook cooks, the maid cleans and then the nanny takes care of the children.
  3. Relatively good looking--ie gori, patli, and tall - Who the said relatively? Very good looking. Nicole Kidman good!
  4. Jahez - No your parents bring that not you.
  5. A father rich enough and mother not interfering enough for hte couple to live comfortably. - Again your parents and not you. So not of value at the table.