what do guys care about when it comes to weddings?

innocentsmoothy · January 13, 2011, 10:37pm

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inshallah but will work towards the wedding working OUR way as i do wish to get her involved aswell.

as for the Walima..... 2 RIGHT! thats our chance to shine! hehehe

Shak · January 14, 2011, 2:02am

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Tbh I am clueless

I suppose, I’ll want acha khana for once. I think what I’d do is ask her what her ‘vision’ is and then go from there?

I’ll write more soon when I am more awake

madinahme · January 14, 2011, 2:06am

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My husband (our nikkah is already done) only cares about getting married so he can take me home. I was so offended when he once slipped by accident that he wouldn't mind having a little thing at home (since I have been working my butt off). He hasn't said anything about the hall or people or anything of that sort. His demands were that he will not wear a sherwani that has too much kaam or buttons (which is so weird, whats wrong with buttons? it looks good on sherwani's) and that the wedding be segregated properly. Men/woman seperate

The only two things my father cares for 1)lots and lots of people 2)lots and lots of food for those people

It makes me so angry that I will sit here and do everything for this event, and my husband is flying in on the 16th july, will rest for two days and show up at the wedding on the 25th july! (he is gone overseas till july)

firenze · January 14, 2011, 2:14am

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madinahme:

My husband (our nikkah is already done) only cares about getting married so he can take me home. I was so offended when he once slipped by accident that he wouldn’t mind having a little thing at home (since I have been working my butt off). He hasn’t said anything about the hall or people or anything of that sort. His demands were that he will not wear a sherwani that has too much kaam or buttons (which is so weird, whats wrong with buttons? it looks good on sherwani’s) and that the wedding be segregated properly. Men/woman seperate

The only two things my father cares for 1)lots and lots of people 2)lots and lots of food for those people

It makes me so angry that I will sit here and do everything for this event, and my husband is flying in on the 16th july, will rest for two days and show up at the wedding on the 25th july! (he is gone overseas till july)

perfect, exactly only a man can do this :k: …

oOalyshaOo16 · January 14, 2011, 2:41am

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haha i knew you guyz would give responses like these lol ..... i dunnu about other gurlz but i love weddings .. there fun ... i haven't had mine yet but their fun to go to lol. and myabe u guyz don't find it fun cuz afterall your just GUYZ.. haha

somegroovychick · January 14, 2011, 1:29pm

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i really don't think we only have 5 guys on GS... where are the rest? TLK, round up yer men!

NomiCA · January 14, 2011, 2:33pm

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… you need to advertise this thread…make a sticky or something and announce a reward in Pakistan Affairs forum…you may get some responses

STA · January 14, 2011, 5:45pm

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i know my brother did care a lot including he gave basic idea for bride gharara, and i help him out in selecting good photographer. furthermore, he advised his in laws about the wedding stage.
yes he had many items on his list which he accomplished.

madinahme · January 15, 2011, 9:09pm

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Some guys may even have ideas and want things to be a certain way, but sometimes they don't say it out loud. They assume it's a girly to plan weddings and whatever :P
lol