This was something I was thinking about too... how likely is it that a bride will have time to change and for all the married ladies, did u change into fancy stuff and make ur entrance into room or put fancy stuff underneath and then put clothes back on top... (sorry for sounding pervy, just wondering whether to get matching lingerie with lengha or have a nightie type outfit.. i'm wearing a corset top so hopefully spanx will not be needed)
yeah...good question... cuz u don't want to intimidate the guy by thinking, "whoaa this girl's excited! baysharam!" lol...so seriously...like say you've been nikahed but the topic of sex has never come up and both of you steer away from it, now what do you think he's expecting on the first night? My cousin was saying that all those months of talking really will build up and he'll be wanting it the first night, so then maybe you'd have to dress in lingerie. But just to be on the safe side, if you just wear shalwar kameez, would you leave him disappointed?