desis just do NOT pose like this. Very nice pics :k:
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Just because we live in the US doesnt mean we should do what the goras do..if its inappropriate…it doesnt matter who does it… the goras/kalas/ do it..its inappropriate…i dont mean to be judgmental…pictures are nice..but to pose like that in front of your parents and elders means you dont respect them…granted they wont spoil the moment for you..but the respect factor has been jeopardized…pakis have become so insensitive to their own culture…
nope thats after our nikkah after our shaadi it was our valima, the night was over and their were only our friends and parents left and they were like DO IT itll be cute... sorry to break it to you but not everyone has a fork up their butt. NOTHING WRONG WITH KISSING AFTER SHAADI THERE IS NO SEXUAL CONNOTATION TO IT
Just because we live in the US doesnt mean we should do what the goras do..if its inappropriate...it doesnt matter who does it... the goras/kalas/ do it..its inappropriate...i dont mean to be judgmental...pictures are nice..but to pose like that in front of your parents and elders means you dont respect them.....granted they wont spoil the moment for you..but the respect factor has been jeopardized.....pakis have become so insensitive to their own culture...
Oh get off your high horse, who are you to call someone's wedding picture as being disrespectful or insensitive? If anything YOU are hte one being judgmental, insensitive and disrespectful. Noone's asking you to kiss your husband or hold his hand, so stop freaking out b/c a married couple is showing affection, or someone is wearing a veil or if they're cutting cakes.
Isn't armali the one who had an issue with veils also? You wanna tell me how covering your face is copying other religions? Or kissing your own spouse is disrespectful? Do not even start on this cultural nonsense because I refuse to see any sense in desi cultures where a girl cannot even talk to her hubby after Nikkah, their LEGAL marriage, for instance. People like you expect every couple to act like strangers with each other. Tauba Tauba if anyone holds hands, or hug each other.
Pakifairy I love the top for your nikkah lengha. Its even long enough to make a kameez out of later if you wanted to, what a fantastic outfit that would be
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Or kissing your own spouse is disrespectful? Do not even start on this cultural nonsense because I refuse to see any sense in desi cultures where a girl cannot even talk to her hubby after Nikkah, their LEGAL marriage, for instance. People like you expect every couple to act like strangers with each other. Tauba Tauba if anyone holds hands, or hug each other.
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I dont think she meant kissing your husband is wrong or disrespectful, most obviously everything goes after nikah irregardless of what desi culture might dictate. I think she was talking about kissing in public in particular, as opposed to in private
To each their own, whatever you feel right about, go with that. I understand people who dont think PDA is appropriate due to modesty and levels of hayaa as taught by religion. But I dont really think it should be thought inappropriate just because you think its disrespectful to elders or insensitive to desi culture
Anyways, like I said, to each their own. I just wanted to point out what I think she was trying to say
midnight eyes..you are right..i didnt mean to present kissing as an issue...its the PDA that you guys were oooh and ahh ing over..that i found a little weird...and shay9164 i was talking about pda...it IS disrespectful to be all coochi choo-ing infront of your parents, grandparents and others...because they are not used to it..its ok for us..since we are around it 24-7..and why are you yelling at me?????? tameez se baat karo..please.
Yelling at you? Go read my message again. Even for PDA, what's your problem? If a couple wants to do it, let them be. Seems like you have an issue with everything.
A) mayun - This was at home so wore a very simple yellow cotton suit
B) mehndi - I wore a cream with brfown border khada dupatte ( Our hyderasbafi traditional stuff)
C) shadi- Red heavy lehenga
D) valima- Pink and silver two toned lehenga
I think i can see what armali is saying, from an Islamic point of view, kissing is something considered to be intimate and therefore should be done in private. But to each their own yep, i agree.
So far, all the photos i've seen, love the outfits in them, would like to post pics of my wedding outfits, but they're in Pakistan lol, and one outfit i don't have anymore lol.
Mehndi - Yellowy/Goldy salwar kameez, in a silky material, afterwards it was given away to someone, this is a tradition some on my family follow, the mehndi outfit is given away after the mehndi, usually to someone not that well off.
Baraat/Shaadi - Maroon and gold lengha
Walimah - Lengha the colour of (this is what i say anyway lol) a sunset.
PakiFairy - One word = GORGEOUS! I love your pics omg. Your photographer was absoloutely fab. By any chance was it a gorah photographer? Aapne like to keep the pictures very much traditional and non contemporary. Aah, I feel to get married. =)
