You definitely seem to have issues if you think that anybody who adopts a “gora” thing as being a part of their wedding is ashamed of their culture.
Weddings are very emotional events, and people get caught up in the mood and fun. So someone who would never ever do something, like dance or kiss their spouse or whatever, might just get caught up in the moment and do something uncharacteristic of them, especially if it’s their own/their child’s wedding, only out of khushi.
I think even PF said that her pic was a spur of the moment thing and not a “pose.” Just b/c a bride and groom hold hands or give each other a kiss doesn’t mean they’re always sucking face in public, nor it means that the girls who dance for thier sisters mehndi are professional dancers for men, as you’re making them out to be (no pun intended).. it’s simply that they got caught up in the moment. and it’s nto fair for you to imply that they are ashamed of their culture or making a spectacle.
B/c in pakistan, PDA is just not part of the culture… it is part of AMerican culture, whehter u like it or not…and if someone was raised here, is it fair for them to follow totally paki culture? No…if someone is raised in another country, it’s only natural that they will end up adopting values from both cultures. as to whether htey are good or bad values is up to that person to decide… not you. And, look at my argument about caught up in the moment.
anyways i still find it really amusing that you’re actually complaining about a cake! Cakes are so yummy! why so anti-cake? 