What Badabing Wants wants in a Future Wife

[Sehrysh]

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@badabing

Because I’ve seen one of my oldest childhood paki friends be both emotionally and financially invested in a so called “sharif” brit paki girl - only to have her cuckold him and give birth to another man’s child and take their first kid (his kid) away - who he gets to see every other weekend. That’s why. Protect yourselves at all times!

That’s really sad for your friend and he was done poorly by. But it was one woman! She’s not representative of the entire gender.

And, doesn’t matter how good an actor you are, if you’re not emotionally invested in your relationship, she’ll know and then the very thing you fear - an unfaithful wife may be a strong possibility. It’s like a self-fulfilling prophecy.

[Paheli00]

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@badabing

The best UK schools are all boarding schools. That’s why.

If you don’t want to answer my question about whether or not you attended boarding school, then say so. No need to dance around the question.

[badabing]

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@Sehrysh

That’s really sad for your friend and he was done poorly by. But it was one woman! She’s not representative of the entire gender.

And, doesn’t matter how good an actor you are, if you’re not emotionally invested in your relationship, she’ll know and then the very thing you fear - an unfaithful wife may be a strong possibility. It’s like a self-fulfilling prophecy.

As far as she’ll be aware, I will emotionally invested - this won’t be my first time at the rodeo with propagating the “illusion” of emotionally connecting with a woman, plenty of practice. Listen to them drone on, tell them how great they are, hour long phone calls, saucy e-mails, bit of Shakespeare, lots of undivided attention, sexual variety, romance, spontaneity - quite straight forward actually. The only person that will know that I am not emotionally invested will be me, so if the shyte hits the fan (touch wood it doesn’t it) - a couple of phone calls and I can be on my merry way to pastures new without any emotional or financial baggage. That’s the plan anyway.

[badabing]

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@Paheli00

If you don’t want to answer my question about whether or not you attended boarding school, then say so. No need to dance around the question.

I thought I did, best schools in the UK are private schools. As far as me, yes, I did.

[aqua70]

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@badabing

As far as she’ll be aware, I will emotionally invested - this won’t be my first time at the rodeo with propagating the “illusion” of emotionally connecting with a woman, plenty of practice. Listen to them drone on, tell them how great they are, hour long phone calls, saucy e-mails, bit of Shakespeare, lots of undivided attention, sexual variety, romance, spontaneity - quite straight forward actually. The only person that will know that I am not emotionally invested will be me, so if the shyte hits the fan (touch wood it doesn’t it) - a couple of phone calls and I can be on my merry way to pastures new without any emotional or financial baggage. That’s the plan anyway.

And what if you marry a guppan? lol

[Sehrysh]

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@aqua70

And what if you marry a guppan? lol

The odds of that happening are not in his favour…

[badabing]

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@Sehrysh

The odds of that happening are not in his favour…

Agreed.

[aqua70]

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@Sehrysh

The odds of that happening are not in his favour…

True!

[Sehrysh]

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@badabing

As far as she’ll be aware, I will emotionally invested - this won’t be my first time at the rodeo with propagating the “illusion” of emotionally connecting with a woman, plenty of practice. Listen to them drone on, tell them how great they are, hour long phone calls, saucy e-mails, bit of Shakespeare, lots of undivided attention, sexual variety, romance, spontaneity - quite straight forward actually. The only person that will know that I am not emotionally invested will be me, so if the shyte hits the fan (touch wood it doesn’t it) - a couple of phone calls and I can be on my merry way to pastures new without any emotional or financial baggage. That’s the plan anyway.

So what if a woman met ALL of your prerequisites and agreed to all of the conditions you have (pre-nup, full-time work, nanny/boarding school for the kids and fulfilled her conjugal obligations) BUT she didn’t love you - why isn’t that enough?

[badabing]

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@Sehrysh

So what if a woman met ALL of your prerequisites and agreed to all of the conditions you have (pre-nup, full-time work, nanny/boarding school for the kids and fulfilled her conjugal obligations) BUT she didn’t love you - why isn’t that enough?

Oh she’ll love me, that’s easy. With love you get added security, I like feeling secure.

[khattichic]

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[Aaze]

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@badabing

Oh she’ll love me, that’s easy. With love you get added security, I like feeling secure.

wah kya baat hai

You think you can fool her, but she cant?

[Sehrysh]

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But what if she chooses not to love you? Doesn’t matter that your mom and sisters and exes tell you you’re lovable - you’ve actually given then something in return.

But with wifey-poo, she knows that your preferences already speak to your rigid mindset which she’s agreeable to, but only because she’s as business-minded.

Just an FYI - as soon as you tell her she has to sign a pre-nup, work 30+ years, let nannies raise her kids, she knows that she’s getting a great lifestyle from you, but one that is emotionally barren, so your pretense of love will be known for what it is.

[badabing]

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@Aaze

wah kya baat hai

You think you can fool her, but she cant?

Very good point. Never thought of that one. Will have devise and scheme further to find a solution to eliminate this risk. Any suggestions?

[badabing]

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@Sehrysh

But what if she chooses not to love you? Doesn’t matter that your mom and sisters and exes tell you you’re lovable - you’ve actually given then something in return.

But with wifey-poo, she knows that your preferences already speak to your rigid mindset which she’s agreeable to, but only because she’s as business-minded.

Just an FYI - as soon as you tell her she has to sign a pre-nup, work 30+ years, let nannies raise her kids, she knows that she’s getting a great lifestyle from you, but one that is emotionally barren, so your pretense of love will be known for what it is.

First, my family think I’m to ruthless and calculated. As far as loving me goes, like I said, won’t be my first dance. I know how to Korral women, emotionally speaking. Use to take me months, whittled it right down to few hours over a bottle of wine.

As far as making her work, after about 2-4 years, once I know I can trust her, that stipulation will be removed, but she won’t know this from the onset. Again, to her, we will be emotionally connected, although aaze raised a good point, so will have to scheme a bit more on that one - suggestions are welcome.

[Sehrysh]

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@badabing

First, my family think I’m to ruthless and calculated. As far as loving me goes, like I said, won’t be my first dance. I know how to Korral women, emotionally speaking. Use to take me months, whittled it right down to few hours over a bottle of wine.

As far as making her work, after about 2-4 years, once I know I can trust her, that stipulation will be removed, but she won’t know this. Again, to her, we will be emotionally connected, although aqua raised a good point, so will have to scheme a bit more on that one - suggestions are welcome.

I thought you were a tee-totaler - no wine for wooing for you!

[badabing]

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@Sehrysh

I thought you were a tee-totaler - no wine for wooing for you!

None for me, but for her, it’s all good.

[tubelight]

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Not again mannn.

I think mods should change names of all the threads in life1 to badabing.

[Sehrysh]

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@badabing

None for me, but for her, it’s all good.

That’s mean you either get them drunk to have your way with them or you’re flexible with this requirement - meaning Muslim in name-only:

@badabing

Understanding that if she leaves Islam - we’re done, don’t want no agnostic as a wife.

[khattichic]

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Yaar Sehrysh, tumhari himmat ki daad deti hoohn