Re: What attributes would...
I cant stand self absorbed people, who think their a lil better looking than they actually are....BIG turn off.
Gold diggers - their usually psycho and very prone to cheap values IMHO
Hairy women - sorry, but if her mooch is moving as she talks, im out the door!
Coloured contact lenses - odd occasions, fair enough. Full time, thats too pretentious
Spendaholic - considering we have third world connections as Pakistanis, and glocal connections as Muslims, any woman who spends hundreds on a handbag, isn't wife material for me...It's narrated even in Islam than a woman who over spends is like a miserly man, both destroy their Iman.
Perfume shop - the ones who bathe in perfume in the morning and destory my sinuses. A date, fair enough, spending your life with em? Heeeeell nope.
Star plus drama head case - yep, you know the type, the ones who either let the world run all over them, OR are the saas killers. Both stink and need psychiatric counselling...
Liers - ofcourse, we've all met em...the types who are secretaries for a solicitor firm or a doctors surgery but allege to BE a GP or Solicitor. They get found out eventually lol!
Baggage - dont get me wrong everyone has some to a certain extent. But if she's teasing multiple blokes at the same time, she's clearly got self esteem issues/insecurities. Old BF's that are still in the equation etc. Divorcees are a different matter, and I dont think society should stigmatise them as much. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance, and for me thats not baggage, that's a survivor.
I could go on forever, but to be fair, wifey material is different from GF material. Sad I know, but it is the case. Though as you grow older, you kinda want a synthesis of both.