Re: what are the reasons behind this, i wonder.
so i sometimes wonder that why the parents living in UK,US,Canada etc mostly prefer to marry off their daughters to the guys back home in Pakistan over the guys that are born and brought up in same foreign countries?
while they want guys from Pakistan for their daughters they don’t want the daughters to live in/settle in Pakistan but needs the guy to settle in that foreign country where the girl and her family are.
so why is that so? like if you want your daughter to remain there and your Son in law to settle there then why not simply look for guys who are living in your country already and who are born and brought up there?
It’s not a secret why: Moolah is priority. First you have to get out of Pakistan and secure a future. Once you do that, you want to bring someone from Pakistan to secure the culture.