Re: What action would cause disrespect in your eyes for your SO/spouse/fiance/fiancee
Nothing would. Honestly. I can understand in the beginning of your relationship when you’re not comfortable but after years of being together, I think it’s weird to get “disrespected” in an intimate setting. Of course, as long as it is consensual and if it is nothing could disrespect me. Knowing I’m my fiance’s first and last SO and future-wife and him being my first and last SO/future-husband (we both didn’t date prior to one another) helps a lot. And as future Women’s Studies major, ahem. Basically, I have no hangups about things knowing he would never mean it in a disrespectful way.
Now, porn would be the only thing that would piss me off but thank god that is not even an issue.