Let us not kid ourselves, Porn business caters mostly to men, It is nature that female species are way more cautious about hooking up as they carry most of the risk in the mating process, in most of the animal species and most of the cultures females are the selectors It is a man’s job to pursue and a desirable females destiny to be pursued. I don’t understand what the big deal is about sex, it is but a natural process. partners should be able to enjoy each other without any inhibitions, If a girl cannot share her fantasies with her beau it is not a very fulfilling relationship, I am no sure why some men are insecure about their ladies sexuality, be nice to her and look after her needs and she won’t think of other guys as much.