Nah. Don’t worry. What I mentioned above is just a wishful thinking. I know I cannot find someone with all the above traits so I have stopped thinking about that. These traits just came to my mind coz of the thread :halo:
I cannot compromise on two things though. Education and someone NOT engaging in 2 habits (drinking and illicit physical relations). I hope to find a desi guy with at least these two qualities
Come on, guys with those qualities exist but you would consider a lot of them to be “losers”. Wait sorry that’s not PC, “they wouldn’t be a good match” right?
So you have never met even **one **man who had a good education, and didn't drink or engage in pre-marital sex? Not one? And this includes men who you would consider to be mama's boys, because like Ashy said, as long as they are good Muslims and are educated they should be a good match. Right?
So you have never met even **one **man who had a good education, and didn't drink or engage in pre-marital sex? Not one? And this includes men who you would consider to be mama's boys, because like Ashy said, as long as they are good Muslims and are educated they should be a good match. Right?
Nope. Most that have had a good education have also engaged in haram such as previous relationships, so I would really like to come across that ONE person who is educated, smart, religious AND loves his family.
It's weird because it makes me wish I had committed haram too, just to balance things out cos there is no way I'm going to find a virgin, 0 relationship, educated guy. LOL, unfair, I know.
Ahh Desis.... I think we are one group of people who wish too much..
Lol in this regard I think white people have an advantage. They very quickly realize how attractive they are because you can only get rejected by the "hot" girl/guy so many times before you realize that, hey, maybe I'm not all that and then some. Realistic expectations.
Nope. Most that have had a good education have also engaged in haram such as previous relationships, so I would really like to come across that ONE person who is educated, smart, religious AND loves his family.
It's weird because it makes me wish I had committed haram too, just to balance things out cos there is no way I'm going to find a virgin, 0 relationship, educated guy. LOL, unfair, I know.
Honestly, I'm shocked to hear that. There are always educated and religious men around, the problem is that they may not be very outspoken or assertive or manly.
Honestly, I'm shocked to hear that. There are always educated and religious men around, the problem is that they may not be very outspoken or assertive or manly.
It has nothing to do with assertiveness, it has to do with the right proposals coming along at the right time for a girl. One can't spend an entire life waiting for the right person to come (that doesn't exist), so end up compromising on these things- also depends how biig of a deal it is for people. To be honest, as everyone says, the longer you wait the greater the chances are you won't find a man that has adhered to religion strictly, in terms of relationships in particular.
To me, it is the biggest compromise, but what can be done, mukammal jahaan kisey milaa hai.
Lol in this regard I think white people have an advantage. They very quickly realize how attractive they are because you can only get rejected by the "hot" girl/guy so many times before you realize that, hey, maybe I'm not all that and then some. Realistic expectations.
Hmm..I generally do find Desi girls putting up a real front in regards to how they look. White women are more level headed in my opinion thus most of my female friends are white or non desi. Lol.
Hmm..I generally do find Desi girls putting up a real front in regards to how they look. White women are more level headed in my opinion thus most of my female friends are white or non desi. Lol.
umm sure and your post was anything but typical right?
My post is from my perspective? Typical in the sense that questioning me doesn't give you the answer, right? Your post being rather devoid as in to answer your question I would have to be white.