What a woman wants

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Nah. Don’t worry. What I mentioned above is just a wishful thinking. I know I cannot find someone with all the above traits so I have stopped thinking about that. These traits just came to my mind coz of the thread :halo:

I cannot compromise on two things though. Education and someone NOT engaging in 2 habits (drinking and illicit physical relations). I hope to find a desi guy with at least these two qualities :bummer:

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Come on, guys with those qualities exist but you would consider a lot of them to be “losers”. Wait sorry that’s not PC, “they wouldn’t be a good match” right? :hehe:

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Someone who is beautiful by nature, caring, social and outgoing..

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I have yet to come across with one!

There should be another thread about:

What women get …

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So you have never met even **one **man who had a good education, and didn't drink or engage in pre-marital sex? Not one? And this includes men who you would consider to be mama's boys, because like Ashy said, as long as they are good Muslims and are educated they should be a good match. Right?

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Nope. Most that have had a good education have also engaged in haram such as previous relationships, so I would really like to come across that ONE person who is educated, smart, religious AND loves his family.

It's weird because it makes me wish I had committed haram too, just to balance things out cos there is no way I'm going to find a virgin, 0 relationship, educated guy. LOL, unfair, I know.

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Someone wise (not necessarily intelligent or a degree holder) but sensible and actually has a conscience and who actually cares.

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Islamic
Good character
Educated
Calm nature and specifically taciturn
Good know how of all home chores
Caring

Thats what i want to see in my wife

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Ahh Desis.... I think we are one group of people who wish too much..

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Lol in this regard I think white people have an advantage. They very quickly realize how attractive they are because you can only get rejected by the "hot" girl/guy so many times before you realize that, hey, maybe I'm not all that and then some. Realistic expectations.

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Honestly, I'm shocked to hear that. There are always educated and religious men around, the problem is that they may not be very outspoken or assertive or manly.

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It has nothing to do with assertiveness, it has to do with the right proposals coming along at the right time for a girl. One can't spend an entire life waiting for the right person to come (that doesn't exist), so end up compromising on these things- also depends how biig of a deal it is for people. To be honest, as everyone says, the longer you wait the greater the chances are you won't find a man that has adhered to religion strictly, in terms of relationships in particular.

To me, it is the biggest compromise, but what can be done, mukammal jahaan kisey milaa hai.

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Hmm..I generally do find Desi girls putting up a real front in regards to how they look. White women are more level headed in my opinion thus most of my female friends are white or non desi. Lol.

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Ask a white guy his opinion on that.

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He probably thinks the same.

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You are not a white guy so you can't just assume.

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Just wanted to see your reply. Typical. Ask a white guy if you really want to know.

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umm sure and your post was anything but typical right?

I merely meant to point out that grass is always greener on the other side.

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My post is from my perspective? Typical in the sense that questioning me doesn't give you the answer, right? Your post being rather devoid as in to answer your question I would have to be white.

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Reread my last post man. Sorry I edited it a short second later. Didn't know you were ready to jump on my tail so fast.