your moving house. well the whoe family, inlaws etc are. theres one person in that house, dil, who doesnt wish to help clean the new house, scrubbing/cleaning/washing/ hard work , and chooses not to help, while ul see everyone else there doing it all, inc mil.
your moving house. well the whoe family, inlaws etc are. theres one person in that house, dil, who doesnt wish to help clean the new house, scrubbing/cleaning/washing/ hard work , and chooses not to help, while ul see everyone else there doing it all, inc mil.
what would you call this person?
Strong-willed? She doesn't like to scrub/clean/wash another person's house, doesn't care about kissing her in-laws behind, and isn't afraid to show it.
Strong-willed? She doesn't like to scrub/clean/wash another person's house, doesn't care about kissing her in-laws behind, and isn't afraid to show it.
Assuming the DIL lives there too and is just not a guest for a few days,how is it equivalent to kissing other's behinds...??Helping out those with whom you live in the house where you live too(no matter legally it belongs to the FIL..!),is wrong...???
What if she has tried her best at helping out tc but has been told she is a ditz and doesnt know how to cook, clean and all tose pleasure inducing chores all bahus get a kick out of... So maybe she has given up?
Bah who ami kidding... Down with the bahu!!!! :witch hunt wala icon:
Assuming the DIL lives there too and is just not a guest for a few days,how is it equivalent to kissing other's behinds...??Helping out those with whom you live in the house where you live too(no matter legally it belongs to the FIL..!),is wrong...???
1) My answer was based on the impression that the DIL is not moving in the new house (ie. that house is not her full-time residence).
2) I have no idea where you got the 2nd line from but for the sake of clarification.....No, it is not wrong to help people who share the house with you.
But let me point out one thing....Nadz specifically mentioned the DIL refused to clean the house. Just b/c she's not on her knees scrubbing the house and doing other things to "clean", that does not mean that she is not OR can not do other things to help the family.
your moving house. well the whoe family, inlaws etc are. theres one person in that house, dil, who doesnt wish to help clean the new house, scrubbing/cleaning/washing/ hard work , and chooses not to help, while ul see everyone else there doing it all, inc mil.