Re: Western Guys Marrying Pakistani Girls: Dilemma
Well thats the problem with not having a chance to really get to know a person before having to pledge your life to them; both the parties/families don't really know each other well enough to truly trust each other. It's a leap of faith that some are willing & able to make.
But the chances do exist of things turning out the way they did for your uncle.
Sorry - I know this isn't really helpful for your decision making, but in the end, it depends on how strongly you feel for her.