Western Girls (merged threads)

[nia_khan]

Re: Western Girls

@amana

ITA - I too am a gori, and am so sick and tired of gora and western being used to describe every terrible habit a person could have.

If you guys are looking for girls in school or at bars who are “easy” guess what - you’ll find them. But decent ‘gori’ girls wouldn’t give guys like you the time of day - neither would any desi girl, for that matter. Maybe it’s for the best that you guys have mommies to find biwis for you - if you were on your own you’d never find one.

[dutch_paki]

Re: Western Girls

@amana

ITA - I too am a gori, and am so sick and tired of gora and western being used to describe every terrible habit a person could have.

If you guys are looking for girls in school or at bars who are “easy” guess what - you’ll find them. But decent ‘gori’ girls wouldn’t give guys like you the time of day - neither would any desi girl, for that matter. Maybe it’s for the best that you guys have mommies to find biwis for you - if you were on your own you’d never find one.

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[hussain87]

Re: Western Girls

@amana

ITA - I too am a gori, and am so sick and tired of gora and western being used to describe every terrible habit a person could have.

If you guys are looking for girls in school or at bars who are “easy” guess what - you’ll find them. But decent ‘gori’ girls wouldn’t give guys like you the time of day - neither would any desi girl, for that matter. Maybe it’s for the best that you guys have mommies to find biwis for you - if you were on your own you’d never find one.

then why getting angry when ppl say ur bahaviour is
undecent / shamless? … is it allowed to have these kind of relations with girls before u r married?nowaday most girls/boys talk every detail before they setlle down and i mean
everything!:halo:…when u do haraam things ppl will talk about that no matter u like it or not …we r human not animals we have values and we don,t change every year or 2 male/felmale which is what most of these so called love marriage ppl
have done before they find some1 who they think is good enough to marry:D … if love marriage mean talking all **** with ur '‘will be wife someday’'then sorry i don,t want love marriage…and if it means girl has to have countless boy friends cuz she is looking for some1 who she thinks will make a good husband then sorry she is trash and deserve nothing but being called trash:o …

[dutch_paki]

Re: Western Girls

How many times have we taken one look at a person and formed some kind of opinion based on our generalized preconceived notions? Most people I know, excluding yours truly, :halo: are guilty of being judgemental by assuming certain characteristics based on appearance and first impression

I have heard so very often people saying racially offensive things that it makes me cringe. People need to get out of stereotyping things and people

posted in two threads :halo:

[dutch_paki]

Re: Western Girls

@hussain87

then why getting angry when ppl say ur bahaviour is
undecent / shamless? … is it allowed to have these kind of relations with girls before u r married?nowaday most girls/boys talk every detail before they setlle down and i mean
everything!:halo:…when u do haraam things ppl will talk about that no matter u like it or not …we r human not animals we have values and we don,t change every year or 2 male/felmale which is what most of these so called love marriage ppl
have done before they find some1 who they think is good enough to marry:D … if love marriage mean talking all **** with ur 'will be wife someday’then sorry i don,t want love marriage…and if its mean girl has to have countless boy friends cuz she is looking for some1 who she thinks will make a good husband then sorry she is trash and deserve nothing but being called trash:o ..

You are talking about morals and value’s? Why DO YOU TALK about what other people should or shouldnt do?neigh If you arent contributing or helping a ‘’ couple’ then why dont you leave that to god? Who are you to judge what western girls and boys can do or cannot do? If a boy and girl have dont something its something between them both and God. Not the whole neighbourhood. I hope you Do understand that the people who talk are just as wrong .

Before pointing fingers, people should take a good look at themselves.

[Rush]

Re: Western Girls

@amana

it’s for the best that you guys have mommies to find biwis for you - if you were on your own you’d never find one.

:k:

[hussain87]

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[dutch_paki]

Re: Western Girls

@hussain87

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:p

ontopic

Last time I checked we were talking about boys and girls in the west :)
There is no government or any other institution to guide people here. So yes, people do make mistakes and yes it is bad. but I really dont see any one helping at all. People talk and gossip, even if nothing happened. I have never seen any one help or advice kids who have been in such situations :)

[misguided_Identity]

Re: Western Girls

@dutch_paki

You are talking about morals and value's? Why DO YOU TALK about what other people should or shouldnt do?neigh If you arent contributing or helping a '' couple' then why dont you leave that to god? Who are you to judge what western girls and boys can do or cannot do? If a boy and girl have dont something its something between them both and God. Not the whole neighbourhood. I hope you Do understand that the people who talk are just as wrong .

Before pointing fingers, people should take a good look at themselves.

Ditto.

Embrace the world and its people.

[Sadiyah]

Re: Western Girls

Why is it that we almost always exclude western guys from all such discussions? I've come across many western guys and fobs (who are trying hard to fit in) who have embraced all sorts of vices. Why is it that their character is ignored? Aren't these the guys who ultimately return to Pakistan (or some look for them here) to find a shareef larki?

What's with the double standards here?

[hussain87]

Re: Western Girls

@dutch_paki

:p

ontopic

Last time I checked we were talking about boys and girls in the west :) There is no government or any other institution to guide people here. So yes, people do make mistakes and yes it is bad. but I really dont see any one helping at all. People talk and gossip, even if nothing happened. I have never seen any one help or advice kids who have been in such situations :)

i know man in our communities something lil can become a huge issue nor am defending ppl who gossip but whta i find surprising is that most of ppl who do these acts find it totally accepteble and defendeble...oke 1 date 2 dates but if u have date on date then ofcourse ppl will talk bad about u.... same when ppl talk about woman who work in prostitutie:o ......look i am not that much against dating but whta i find disturbing is how many time thses ppl change their bf/gf i mean date some1 who u truly think could be ur dream princess/dream prince and not like most goras who change every 1 year or 2 their
wifes/husbands/gf/bf thats it:) ...

[Rush]

Re: Western Girls

^ thread is about WG

[hussain87]

Re: Western Girls

^it has changed now:p....

[saieen]

Re: Western Girls

i used to think the same until i met her and she smacked that nonsense out of me in no time…now i’m a humble understanding baba madly in love… :love: not every1 is the same. maybe some are bad / not decent enough for ur taste / liking but its absolutely not right to paint every1 in the same color.first know the person well…maybe then only u’d be able to judge them…though i personally think its not at all possible to completely know a person.i’m glad i had the chance to know her, understand her and finally have feelings for her…

[Amani06]

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I think theres just way too many generalizations being made abt western girls. No1 is holding a gun to any1s head saying u have to marry a western girl. Just leave them be....each to their own but major generalisations r just a sign of ignorance.

[hussain87]

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[misguided_Identity]

Re: Western Girls

@hussain87

u know prob start when ppl try to justify their bad behaviour …if a girl/boy do this then don,t say we r good muslim cuz u r not and i know some liberal folk will rant the same crap who r u to jugde them and its to god to decide they r good muslim or not! but hey when a pimp or prostitute do these haram things we don,t call them good muslim so why different with u when u commit same sins private or in public:halo:…

Ignore this ignoramus ^^^^

[Pakistan_Zindabad_1]

Re: Western Girls

I think in my opinion if you're going to marry someone you should meet your futur spouse before marriage atleast once so you don't have any regrets after marriage when you haven't even seen the guy or girl. For example my friend had an arranged marriage to a guy she didn't even see before marriage[this took place in Florida] and when at the day of the wedding when she saw her husband for the first time she found out that it was her worst enemy from college.[when I found out I laughed......oh yeah just to tell you she's 7 years older then me]! But soon they made a truce. Ok totally off topic but anyway I am just saying Jo Allah nay naseeb may likha hay wohi hota hay... so people don't say that if the guy or girl is a pakistani and so they won't make a good spouse there's good and bad people everywhere you just have to becareful! And all this about Gori's being more better of wife's then pakistani Larki's is all rubbish I mean not every Gori is trust worthy! Another example my Aunty has to Jawan sons they both are marrying gori. and this has my auntie worried cause one of the biwi's[who is NOT even married to the son yet and already lives with them] doesn't want my Auntie to live with her and Auntie's son they are NOT even married] and she is afraid that one day her own son will kick her out of the house!. So many bad things can happen if you are going after a white girl! So just because a pakistani guy wants to live with his mother doesn't mean he's a Mama's boy....it's our culture and that's what we do!

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[hussain87]

Re: Western Girls

wouldn,t bother me much to be ignored by a person whos nick is misguided identity :p ......

[Pakistan_Zindabad_1]

Re: Western Girls

Does anyone agree with me read^