Were you ready for marriage when you got married?

[geminifromkhi]

Re: Were you ready for marriage when you got married?

@newbee13

That’s a interesting question. I’d like to know as well.
I’m nikkahfied to the love of my life I should say.. I’ve been with him for 8 years. Before my nikkah I freaked out.. Cried for days didn’t eat.. Depressed. I believe it was because of the image of marriage in our society.
From where I’ve seen it once you’re married your life is over. Your decisions are made by in laws. You need to ask them for everything while the guy freely gets on with his life.
These were my fears. Been nikkahfied for 1 year and few months. It wasn’t bad… But not having the time of my life at the moment. I think the couple should be left alone with no interference.

Thats what bothers me, that life, as I know it, will end after marriage. Not sure if I want that.