Re: welcome to Pakistan
Amazing analysis,
If you would compare Pakistan to US or UK,then yes you will be shocked...Pakistani's are pretty happy in their own cocoon...They have passed all their lives with all this..Sacrified animals in the backyard, animal's poo on the street, Man holes without cover, 6 or 7 people in one motorcycle, people staring girls like crazy but different places have different attitudes...It's not like everywhere you will find all these things...I bet if you visit defence in Lahore, Cant in Pindi, Clifton in karachi, you would be glorified to see the lifestyle...It's all different...You have seen one side of Pakistan which could be different but not the worst.
As far as these developed nations are concerned,I won't go into how many ppl got killed in these developed nations for no reason, why most of the people avoid going to the downtown at night here, why every single minute they have a rape even noone stare's the women like hell, why people have African-American areas in their NO Go list, why asians are abused in developed nations, why children have been molested by their own parents, why parents stay ine the old homes rather then staying with their kids and Why Desi's (born and grown up abroad) prefer to get married back home, I have thousands of Why...but may be useless to raise it here...as most of u seems to be experienced with a different life style.
Yet i always appreciate honesty,dedication, System, justice and human values abroad....They are simply marvellous in that...No comparison but my point is still there Pakistani's still love each other or atleast help others in the bad times.
But as Captain said if your own shorts are falling don't pulls others Exactly...the same point i have...I knew a girl she is a Canadian Pakistani, went to Pakistan to do his medical school.she really had a hard time without the family, staying in the dorms andshe also had some complains but some genuine ones...but as we are adaptive, she learnt there are areas which are not good for girls ...There are things which she needs to avoid and now she's is been there for 3.5 years and she really likes to stay there bcoz she learnt that every place has his own odds and evens..It's us who adapt the changes.
I argued on one thing...it's all upto you how do you fit yourself in the society..It's not mendatory that u can't keep your body away from your tailor and doctor ...Naa...It's wrong perception...Please make this correction...It varies ppl to ppl .
In the last our moral values are down, we have Mukhtaran mai, Sonya naz and others, we have child molestation in pakistan, we have bur·glary and all the odds in the society but there are reasons behind this....I might not make any sense for the people who grew up abroad .The day Pakistani's got a true leadership and justice on time, we would have the whole different Pakistan as Justice delayed is justice denied.
Thanks
Salman