I thought these were sham warnings and there would a some joke in the last line
I have read a counter-active theory about breasts :rotato:
girls (post adolesent ) like to hold someone close to their chest. That is in their nature. Development of hormone prepare them for motherhood. You must have noticed that teenage girls usually like teddy bears and stuffed toys and hold them while sleeping.
girls who have boy friends and intimate contact with them full fill this urge with by holding their partners. But Muslim and desi girls who usually dont partake intimate relationship before marraige usually like to hold babies and young kids close to their chest. That gives them pleasure and satisfaction.
So reverse of this theory might also be true. Their is some gravitation between kids and breasts.
Little ones are naturally curious especially when they notice differences. They see a womans chest, its very different from theirs and its very nice and soft to touch. They really have NO idea about sexuality at the age of 4. Best thing to do is to just tell them no, it isnt nice to touch there. Never over-react and act like its a huge deal because it isnt - at least to them. Some little ones are very into touching and exploring nice textures and feels, its a part of maturing, its part of sensory development and they just need to learn the rules of polite behavior - they are not little perverts, they just dont know the rules yet. Serafina, I think you dont have little ones yet. You will experience these things when you do! And then you'll probably have some really funny stories to tell once you get over the embarrassment lol!
^ I agree with Mama. They are just curious and they haven't developed the inhibtions. Its no big deal.
Couple of years ago, my son joined a new class, i asked him how's your new teacher,
"very fat", he said. Hmm... Fatter than Mrs X (his previous teacher), "yes, she is fat from the top too" (ye tu ooper sey bhi moti hai)
well they are innocent and don't view it as something sexual..in fact their primary use is as a milk source and in our culture they are oversexualized, some cultures don't even consider them sexual, they consider it infantile if a guy likes boobs
Little ones are naturally curious especially when they notice differences. They see a womans chest, its very different from theirs and its very nice and soft to touch. They really have NO idea about sexuality at the age of 4. Best thing to do is to just tell them no, it isnt nice to touch there. Never over-react and act like its a huge deal because it isnt - at least to them. Some little ones
while we are at it we should tell them not to jump on guy's lap.
we get hurt too :( I mean pain beyond imagination.
oh man my nephew tries to lift the bottom of my shirt sometimes..and he does the same to my mom he lifts her kurta from the side…lol we’re like NO! and he’s not even 2 years old…
So what if you do not have those thing which are being talked about…you can still bless us with your words of wisdom (based on observations maybe) as you always do
and there would a some joke in the last line
…I agree with TLK’s posts.
