Weird habits and marriage

[Paheli00]

Re: Weird habits and marriage

@rouz

-I spend an unusually long amount of time in the bathroom every morning. I usually just take a magazine in there with me, sit on the toilet and read. Sometimes I even take my favourite novel in there with me, or my cell phone and watch random youtube videos, and even my laptop on occasion. I am usually in there for 20-30 mins every morning, plus the time it takes me to shower/brush my teeth. On a good note, it takes me no more than 5-7 minutes to get dressed, wear accessories, brush hair and wear shoes.
-I never make my bed in the mornings. Even as a kid I never made it.
-I only do my laundry once a month (sometimes twice). I have so many clothes that I never run out. I can go without doing laundry for more than two months and never run out of underwear.

I’m going to assume that you’ve never actually lived with another man before as a couple. Living with your husband, sharing a bedroom/bathroom with him and working on building a life together is a new experience. So once he moves in with you, you’ll just have to slowly work on changing these habits. As for making the bed and laundry…you’ll need to change those anyway once you have kids so you might as well start now. I don’t know ANY mom who have children and can go 1 month without doing laundry.

@rouz

-I hate waxing regularly. I usually let my leg hair grow or just shave. I am a regular brazilian waxer though.

Before I got laser hair removal, I always shaved. Waxing isn’t the only option to have hair fee legs. More than what he thinks…why don’t you wait and see just how comfortable YOU will feel with hairy legs when you’re sharing a bed with your hubby. I have close female friends who also didn’t do personal grooming on a regular basis but once they got married, they got really self-conscious b/c someone is actually seeing “everything”. They managed to change their grooming habits real fast.

Oh also, husband thinking you’re “weird” isn’t the end of the world. And you’re also making a huge assumption that your husband himself doesn’t have some weird habits that’re MUCH worse than yours.