Weird Feelings

Lifestyle Relationships
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**I don’t know whether this is suitable place to create a thread like this or not (Mods please shift the thread if not).

Right now (or even most of the times now) I am now surrounded with the weird (or maybe normal) feelings..

I’d be Nikaholified exactly one month from now, insha-Allah… and a week before that my cousin-cum-sister would be married IA… I am getting every negative feeling.. I even started missing my parents/siblings from now… I am missing hubby to be at the same moment… The height of this, I want to sleep, the feeling won’t let me.. I won’t to concentrate my job and studies, I couldn’t…I am strong enough to compose myself infront of anyone… I can easily control the extreme emotions even… I couldnt help myself out in this.. I am brawling as if life is ending (Allah forbids).. I couldnt even share this with my mom or any of my sister or even to my fiance.. I don’t want to make them worry just because of me..

You name any stupid ruksati song and I have it in my mind..

I know I am getting even more weird now.. .
Any suggestions to overcome this? are you too facing the same?
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Re: Weird Feelings

Speak it out sister … and GS is best place for it. Btw its just fear of unknown. You’ll be all fine.

:jhanda:

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I think it's totally normal.......... it happens to everyone whose about to start a new life.... but if you really wanna know if it's right or not i suggest that you do istakhara! all your doubts will go away!

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What I do istakhara for?! I already did it when I was engaged some 11 months back and it was all fine.

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you have been engaged for 11 months but you still sound like this

did something happened to upset you or does something or someone not seem right to you

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Re: Weird Feelings

Its very normal. Nothing you said is unusual for someone about to get married. Remember, this will be one of the biggest changes of your entire life. It's natural to be stressed. :)

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If you already did istakhara then you have nothing to worry about....... i guess it's just what girls go through before getting married..... i think its normal..... you shouldn't worry about anything.... InshAllah everything is gona be fine.... knowing that im gona get married in a couple of months scares me and i also have all these weird things and feelings going on........ Just be happy....... and enjoy your wedding....... I wish that you have an awsomeeeeeee life ahead of you ...... good Luck! my prayers are with you!!!!!!