weird feeling...

so were any of you ladies ever scared to be pregnant…like did you get nauseous at the thought of having something inside of you…feeding on your nutrients…I know its a miracle of Allah (swt) to bring a beautiful baby into the world…but were any of you scared about the pregnancy part or do i need to seek some sort of help lol!!

And once you had the baby were you ever able to get your figure back?
And what’s the most rewarding part of being a mom or dad in your opinion? :slight_smile:

Re: weird feeling...

I think some people do theoretically think about pregnancy being a bit "Alien" or refer to the baby as a "parasite" (That's not nice!).

I think everyone is different, but if you do have these kind of negative / scary thoughts, try to think positively instead. Think of it as if you are providing a comfortable home to the baby for the next 8 / 9 months and the little thing will depend on you to grow and mature into a healthy baby, inshallah.

Lots of people DO get their pre-pregnancy figure back, usually with a bit of care and attention to diet and exercise. There's no reason why you shouldn't also.

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Thanks for the responce RupayHalwa...and yea i think i'm just scared...I'm sure i will Inshallah get over it cause i really do want kids...i was just wondering if any one else had these feelings before cause then i wouldnt feel as bad lol

I love the way you put it...that you provide a comfertable home for the baby...so cute!

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It may seem a bit strange at first, like knowing that there is a life growing in your tummy. But, trust me, when you get to see your first baby scan (usually wk 8-9), and you see your 2-cm baby and a tiny beating heart, you will feel like a million dollars. That's usually the time you actually start feeling confident about the life growing in you. Not to mention protective!

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aww!!! That's so sweet Vital!!!