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Shak it was ball gag man! Nothing dirty. People use that ****. Google its uses, might come in handy someday.
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The problem is that chubby guys only get more so as they age. My ex gained about 50lbs after we got married, and after we split up, he gained another 50. I agree with TLK: it belies an inability to exercise self-control and a negligence of one's own health against common sense.
And a big belly gets in the way!;)
UR A WOMAN?!
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I bet most women here will say its a non-issue, whereas in reality I bet none of them in real life would like to marry a mota! I dont see anything wrong with that, but atleast they should just admit it.
This.
Well in your face you two. I see a lot of women admitting to it on here. BOOOO! :p
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Don't think I would have been attracted to my husband if he was a chubby overweight guy, men should also be athletic or fit and i'm not saying stick thin but an athletic physique is much more attractive and also indicates a healthy lifestyle.
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Well in your face you two. I see a lot of women admitting to it on here. BOOOO! :p
You have to give credit, we saved the day; we coerced them into admitting what's right...
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You have to give credit, we saved the day; we coerced them into admitting what's right...
This.
(And the ruck is formed again. Hah!)
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Its ok to reject a fat guy but not ok to reject a kaali girl.......talk about double standards....
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^As usual you're twisting the argument..
Most fat girls wouldn't reject a fat guy but we often see guys who aren't fair skinned themselves rejecting girls for not being fair lol.. That's double-standards..
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^As usual you're not comparing like for like.. Most fat girls wouldn't reject a fat guy but we often see dark guys rejecting girls for being dark as well.. It's called double-standards..
the main thing is rejecting someone for their appearance......and i would be surprised that NONE of the girls who hold this view about fat guy is fat/chubby etc......
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^Yeah, it's very likely that the majority of larger girls would turn down a guy for being large like them the way dark guys turn down girls for not being fair rolleyes..
There will always be exceptions but it's hardly commonplace like it is with the skintone issue.. Whilst they obviously do have their preferences they tend to be a lot more open-minded, compromising and less hypocritical when it comes to looks than guys anyway, you only have to look at young desi couples at parties and weddings to see hot girls with not so hot men (and not just the wealthy ones)..
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so your point is that desi guys are more closed-minded,less compromising and more hyporcritical than desi girls.???
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I’ve seen desi girls (who are not fat) being told by parents to accept the rishta of a bigger guy, saying that he can lose the weight. Now…if a desi guy was to reject a girl a girl for being fat, would the parents urge him to accept her using the same reasoning? 
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The problem is that chubby guys only get more so as they age. My ex gained about 50lbs after we got married, and after we split up, he gained another 50. I agree with TLK: it belies an inability to exercise self-control and a negligence of one's own health against common sense.
And a big belly gets in the way!;)
The same is true for chubby/healthy (read fat) women too. If they're chubby now, imagine what the situation would be after childbirth.
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This.
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So now its the guy’s parents vs the girl’s parents showdown?
p.s. Ive seen parents of some really smart good looking guys pressurize them to marry ‘large’ girls, so would the girl’s parents do the same thing? My point is, these personal anecdotes dont, and shouldnt count towards the argument.
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My point is, these personal anecdotes dont, and shouldnt count towards the argument.
You can't possibly EVER get this point across :D
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Islamically speaking, parents are not allowed to force their kids to get marry to someone of their choice. and Islamically speaking, one can reject someone on their looks.
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So now its the guy's parents vs the girl's parents showdown?
p.s. Ive seen parents of some really smart good looking guys pressurize them to marry 'large' girls, so would the girl's parents do the same thing? My point is, these personal anecdotes dont, and shouldnt count towards the argument.
Chill yaar. I only put forth an idea based on my own personal observations that I was curious about. I never made a generalization...I wasn't pitting the parents one gender against another. I worded it as a question.
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Chill yaar. I only put forth an idea based on my own personal observations that I was curious about. I never made a generalization..
Im chill... dont worry about that part.
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.I wasn't pitting the parents one gender against another. I worded it as a question.
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But that is how you said it. I was just emphasizing how it sounds like a generalization based on a personal anecdote. You wouldn't have asked that question if you weren't implying the guy's parents dont ask their sons as the daughter's parents would... just sayin :D
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Spock, one knows their own intentions better than another. That's all I'm gonna say.