Weddings!!!

hey everyone

ijust need to get something off my chest

so you all punjabi ppl know how punjabi wedidngs are we preparre like months in advance everyone getting new clothes. The mayun the mehndi the barat the valima the new dress the vari etc… I coinsider myself to be very lucky that i know the desi weddins and love it.

my problem is that i dont have a lot os desi ppl in my school but there is this girl, since were pakis we talk and everything but you see she hates paki weddings. Eveytime anyone touches th esusbject of weddings she starts saying how she hates them how she hates the dresses nad that she wants an american wedding with a white dress and everything.

i dont know what to do it bothers me a lot, to the very extreme to c a desi person hating desi style and culture and trying to assimilate into the firangi culture

what do i do
HELP PLEASE
it disturbs me

don't worry. u may find an american who likes pak style wedding. there are americans who get married in bali islands these days. let her get married american way. u vcan getsome ten americans married in pak and make money for urself and for pak if u advertize paki weddings properly.

offdachain
I agree with zz...it's a personal choice.

However....i do like the traditon of the garter toss from american weddings...maybe i'll add that one into my own.

hehehe just kidding.

Could you imagine the shock?