Wedding Traditions

Which of the following have you seen ?Manjhay bithana

  • Mehndi lagana
  • Masla piswana
  • Pani bharwana
  • Chouthi khelna
  • Dulhan ki jooti, dulha kay kandahy par lagana
  • Arsi mashaf karna
  • Dulha kay saron par behnon ka anchal dalna
  • Zafran kay bhanay marchain khilana
  • Dulha kay joty chura laina
  • Dulha ko ulti charpai say gira dena
  • Dulha ki sherwani palang say si dena
  • Merasion kay behoda ganay gana

@SID_NY @Ali_Syed @nizamuddin

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mayoon bithana

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app beth gaye hian.. ya abhi bithaya jana baqi hia?

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ye zulm ho chuka hay humaray sath… :smack:

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Sirf dulhay k jotay chura lena

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Dulha ko ulti charpai se giradeina
Dulhan ki jooti, dulha kay kandahy par lagana
:grumpy:

Yeh kaesi ghair ikhlaqi rasoomat hain..itni si baaton per bad mazgi paida hojati hy yeh tu phir inthai ghair ikhlaqi harkat hy…Allah apni panah mein rakhy aesi rasoomat se.ameen

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Apnay kon konsi rasomat dekhi hain.. ?

jiss rasam main faida nazar aye… @LP udhar hi pai jain gi… :hehe:

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  • Manjhay bithana - Seen
  • Mehndi lagana - Seen
  • Masla piswana - Never heard of
  • Pani bharwana - Never heard of
  • Chouthi khelna - Seen
  • Dulhan ki jooti, dulha kay kandahy par lagana - Never heard of
  • Arsi mashaf karna - Seen
  • Dulha kay saron par behnon ka anchal dalna - Seen
  • Zafran kay bhanay marchain khilana - Never heard of
  • Dulha kay joty chura laina - Seen
  • Dulha ko ulti charpai say gira dena - Never heard of
  • Dulha ki sherwani palang say si dena - Never heard of
  • Merasion kay behoda ganay gana - Seen....well perhaps not "behooda" ganay

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Any other custom you seen in weddings?

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Shall we add a few?

  • Ubtan Khailna - Seen
  • Barat rokna - Seen
  • Ruksati kay baad barat ko waapsi pay rokna - Seen
  • Doodh Pila'ee - Seen
  • Kheer Chata'ee - Seen
  • Mamoon of dulhan carries her to the stage - Seen
  • Dulha carries the dulhan off the stage to the car - Seen
  • Dulhan throws hand full of rice over her shoulder - Seen
  • Quran kay sa'ay main dulhan ko rukhsat karna - Seen
  • Dulhan ka chehra pehli baar daikh kar ussay moonh dikha'ee daina - Seen

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Yes, you can add ..

Barat Rokna... Dulhan's brother stops groom and does not let him out from his car...

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@muqawwee123 @Microbian @jiia

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@khattichic

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Manjhay bithana - what is manjhay?

  • Mehndi lagana - seen
  • Masla piswana - masla?
  • Pani bharwana - paani kahan pe bharwana and who does it?
  • Chouthi khelna - What is chouthi?
  • Dulhan ki jooti, dulha kay kandahy par lagana - lol this sounds ehmakaana. How rude!
  • Arsi mashaf karna - what is arsi and what is mashaf?
  • Dulha kay saron par behnon ka anchal dalna - not sure about behno ka aanchal but on dulha's mehndi, he makes his entrance similar to how the bride is brought to the stage under a big fancy dupatta.
  • Zafran kay bhanay marchain khilana - never heard of this. Is this akin to giving a glass of milk to dulha on wedding night?
  • Dulha kay joty chura laina - heard of it, not practiced in my family
  • Dulha ko ulti charpai say gira dena - umm what? that sounds crazy. Why would people do this? It doesn't sound like fun.
  • Dulha ki sherwani palang say si dena - what does this mean palang se hi dena?
  • Merasion kay behoda ganay gana - by this, do you mean jo hijray shaadi ghar main aa kar gaana gaate aur taali bajaate hain?

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Jota chupai i saw when i was child..since then never seen in my family at least..rest do rasomaat kuch saal phly tak hamare han thin jo k may be because mehndi khatam tu ungli pakrai is Alhamdulilah khatam aur one darwaza rukai jab dulha ata hy barat k sath..this one ammi has stopped..ammi thinks yeh sab mamlat kharab kardeti hain..Alhamdulilah buss yehi dekhi hain..