Pani bharwana - paani kahan pe bharwana and who does it?
Chouthi khelna - What is chouthi?
Dulhan ki jooti, dulha kay kandahy par lagana - lol this sounds ehmakaana. How rude!
Arsi mashaf karna - what is arsi and what is mashaf?
Dulha kay saron par behnon ka anchal dalna - not sure about behno ka aanchal but on dulha's mehndi, he makes his entrance similar to how the bride is brought to the stage under a big fancy dupatta.
Zafran kay bhanay marchain khilana - never heard of this. Is this akin to giving a glass of milk to dulha on wedding night?
Dulha kay joty chura laina - heard of it, not practiced in my family
Dulha ko ulti charpai say gira dena - umm what? that sounds crazy. Why would people do this? It doesn't sound like fun.
Dulha ki sherwani palang say si dena - what does this mean palang se hi dena?
Merasion kay behoda ganay gana - by this, do you mean jo hijray shaadi ghar main aa kar gaana gaate aur taali bajaate hain?
Jota chupai i saw when i was child..since then never seen in my family at least..rest do rasomaat kuch saal phly tak hamare han thin jo k may be because mehndi khatam tu ungli pakrai is Alhamdulilah khatam aur one darwaza rukai jab dulha ata hy barat k sath..this one ammi has stopped..ammi thinks yeh sab mamlat kharab kardeti hain..Alhamdulilah buss yehi dekhi hain..