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haha … if i THAT rasm on my weddin .. id be the bride who’d be doin the smoochin!! 
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hahahahahah
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haha, what is mehdi doing at the back
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haha, what is mehdi doing at the back :p
seeing rasams
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was just going thru this again to get more ideas and mainly cuz i love the look of this dulhan .. so traditional .. and i knw its none of my business but outa curiosity .. is the lady filling up the dulhan’s mang ? thats all hinduism ??!
n then i see the guy offering prayers so that confirms its a muslim family …
none of my business again but people can be soo naive!
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^ looks like she's adjusting the teeka to me...
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No she is doing the mang Bihari Rasm I have seen their full album n it's mentioned tht she is doing Rasm n afterwards huby did the same
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I like the throwing-the-chawal thingy, but obv we're not allowed to do it :/
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No she is doing the mang Bihari Rasm I have seen their full album n it's mentioned tht she is doing Rasm n afterwards huby did the same
pfft - how can you do something soo non-islamic and then pray too! - nothing against our hindu sisters .. just that u either follow islam or u dont .. anyways!!
m on beechin mode today sorry but this is just a big surprise !!
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why are we not allowed to do it?
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^ im curious too... what is the significance of it religiously? i thought it was simply a cultural indication that she is a married woman because her maang is bhari. maybe they're indian muslims?
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guys ... u know how we have a nikkah and a dua that follows that means the bride and groom are officially married .. similarly 7 phairey and maang bharai and a mangal sutre represents their officialism .. someone correct if im wrong .. but there is no indication of maang bharai in islam .. and forget that .. even cultural indications dont suggest that .. although we have adopted a lot from the indian culture esp some religious ones ..
some are small simple adoptions which are more inclined towards the fun side of rasms and some just represent an entire different religion soo ... kinda weird. . anyways .. back to rasms .. m done being mean now :) !!
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pfft - how can you do something soo non-islamic and then pray too! - nothing against our hindu sisters .. just that u either follow islam or u dont .. anyways!!
m on beechin mode today sorry but this is just a big surprise !!
I think sometimes people just don't think about this stuff. My parents did the mang bharai rasam at their wedding but with golden glitter. Both their families are quite religious but I think my dads mom was really into rasms. My mom didn't like the idea but was too timid to protest. My future SIL actually wanted to do this at my wedding (5 more months to go!) but def not doing it.
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I like the rasm Where cousins dont let the groom enter bride's room and ask for money
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^ I believe it's called 'darwaza rukwai'